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1.
... those A.A.'s bold enough to accept employment ...   12&12 p.168, Tradition Eight
No individuals have been more buffeted by such emotional gusts than those A.A.'s bold enough to accept employment with outside agencies dealing with the alcohol problem.

2.
... those A.A. treasuries which continue, beyond prudent ...   12&12 p.191, Tradition Seven (Long)
Then, too, we view with much concern those A.A. treasuries which continue, beyond prudent reserves, to accumulate funds for no stated A.A. purpose.


3.
... those A.A. treasuries which continue, beyond prudent ...   BB p.564(566), Appendix I, The A.A. Tradition   Display entire Appendix I
Then too, we view with much concern those A.A. treasuries which continue, beyond prudent reserves, to accumulate funds for no stated A.A. purpose.

4.
... those A.A.'s were right. ..."   12&12 p.23, Step One
Following every spree, he would say to himself, "Maybe those A.A.'s were right. ..."

5.
... those about us.   12&12 p.53, Step Four
This self-centered behavior blocked a partnership relation with any one of those about us.

6.
... those about us?   12&12 p.81, Step Eight
What happens when we wallow in depression, self-pity oozing from every pore, and inflict that upon those about us?

7.
... those about us?   12&12 p.113, Step Twelve
Can we transform these calamities into assets, sources of growth and comfort to ourselves and those about us?

8.
... those about us.   12&12 p.122, Step Twelve
It became a means of exchanging love and service with those about us.

9.
... those about us.   12&12 p.123, Step Twelve
We have had a much keener look at ourselves and those about us.


10.
... those about us in a way no ...   BB p.18, There Is A Solution   Go to page 18 in the Big Book
An illness of this sort -- and we have come to believe it an illness -- involves those about us in a way no other human sickness can.

11.
... those about us in order to gain ...   12&12 p.124, Step Twelve
We no longer strive to dominate or rule those about us in order to gain self-importance.

12.
... those about us may find emotional sobriety.   12&12 p.106, Step Twelve
Here we begin to practice all Twelve Steps of the program in our daily lives so that we and those about us may find emotional sobriety.

13.
... those about us, or we had insisted ...   12&12 p.115, Step Twelve
Either we had tried to play God and dominate those about us, or we had insisted on being overdependent upon them.

14.
... those about us that we are indeed ...   12&12 p.85, Step Nine
As soon as we begin to feel confident in our new way of life and have begun, by our behavior and example, to convince those about us that we are indeed changing for the better, it is usually safe to talk in complete frankness with those who have been seriously affected, even those who may be only a little or not at all aware of what we have done to them.


15.
... those afflicted with alcoholic addiction.   BB xxvii(xxv), The Doctor's Opinion   Display entire Doctor's Opinion
The subject presented in this book seems to me to be of paramount importance to those afflicted with alcoholic addiction.


16.
... those approached will become fellows of Alcoholics ...   BB p.163, A Vision For You   Go to page 163 in the Big Book
Some of them may sink and perhaps never get up, but if our experience is a criterion, more than half of those approached will become fellows of Alcoholics Anonymous.

17.
... those around us.   12&12 p.116, Step Twelve
It became clear that if we ever were to feel emotionally secure among grown-up people, we would have to put our lives on a give-and-take basis; we would have to develop the sense of being in partnership or brotherhood with all those around us.

18.
... those awful debts, possess a decent home, ...   12&12 p.121, Step Twelve
How could we ever take care of those awful debts, possess a decent home, educate the kids, and set something by for old age?

19.
... those better qualified to handle it.   12&12 p.90, Step Ten
We have found that justified anger ought to be left to those better qualified to handle it.

20.
... those cases are the unusual ones.   12&12 p.119, Step Twelve
But those cases are the unusual ones.


21.
... those cases they made an effort to ...   BB p.159, A Vision For You   Go to page 159 in the Big Book
They experienced a few distressing failures, but in those cases they made an effort to bring the man's family into a spiritual way of living, thus relieving much worry and suffering.

22.
... those cases where such a matter must ...   12&12 p.86, Step Nine
And even in those cases where such a matter must be discussed, let's try to avoid harming third parties, whoever they may be.

23.
... those concerned, except when it would injure ...   12&12 p.108, Step Twelve
We followed this up in Step Nine by making direct amends to those concerned, except when it would injure them or other people.

24.
... those dangers of great wealth, prestige, and ...   12&12 p.175, Tradition Nine
A.A. has to function, but at the same time it must avoid those dangers of great wealth, prestige, and entrenched power which necessarily tempt other societies.

25.
... those days.   12&12 p.139, Tradition Three
A member gives us a vivid glimpse of those days.

26.
... those days.   12&12 p.163, Tradition Seven
Hats never got folding money in those days.


27.
... those days of inferno, I wobbled from ...   BB p.4, Bill's Story   Go to page 4 in the Big Book
After one of those days of inferno, I wobbled from a hotel bar to a brokerage office.


28.
... those days was equal to the best ...   BB p.51, We Agnostics   Go to page 51 in the Big Book
Students of ancient history tell us that the intellect of men in those days was equal to the best of today.

29.
... those days, we'd go anywhere on a ...   12&12 p.144, Tradition Three
In those days, we'd go anywhere on a Twelfth Step job, no matter how unpromising.

30.
... those defects we are still unwilling to ...   12&12 p.68, Step Six
Looking again at those defects we are still unwilling to give up, we ought to erase the hard-and-fast lines that we have drawn.


31.
... those dependent upon him?   BB p.80, Into Action   Go to page 80 in the Big Book
What right had he to involve those dependent upon him?

32.
... those doctors.   12&12 p.123, Step Twelve
In the years since, however, most of us have come to agree with those doctors.

33.
... those dreams.   12&12 p.156, Tradition Six
Yes, we of A.A. did dream those dreams.


34.
... those ever-urgent questions, "How can A.A. best ...   BB p.561(563), Appendix I, The A.A. Tradition   Display entire Appendix I
The "12 Traditions" of Alcoholics Anonymous are, we A.A.'s believe, the best answers that our experience has yet given to those ever-urgent questions, "How can A.A. best function?" and, "How can A.A. best stay whole and so survive?"

35.
... those experiences we'd rather not remember, if ...   12&12 p.55, Step Five
If we have swept the searchlight of Step Four back and forth over our careers, and it has revealed in stark relief those experiences we'd rather not remember, if we have come to know how wrong thinking and action have hurt us and others, then the need to quit living by ourselves with those tormenting ghosts of yesterday gets more urgent than ever.


36.
... those experimentally inclined, I should mention the ...   BB p.177, Doctor Bob's Nightmare   Go to page 177 in the Big Book
For the benefit of those experimentally inclined, I should mention the so-called beer experiment.


37.
... those faiths have given purpose and direction ...   BB p.49, We Agnostics   Go to page 49 in the Big Book
We have learned that whatever the human frailties of various faiths may be, those faiths have given purpose and direction to millions.

38.
... those fears, no matter what our material ...   12&12 p.121, Step Twelve
But as time passed we found that with the help of A.A.'s Twelve Steps we could lose those fears, no matter what our material prospects were.

39.
... those fears were to prove groundless?   12&12 p.140, Tradition Three
How could we then guess that all those fears were to prove groundless?

40.
... those feelings of inadequacy by bluffing, cheating, ...   12&12 p.51, Step Four
Did I try to cover up those feelings of inadequacy by bluffing, cheating, lying, or evading responsibility?

41.
... those filled with self-sufficiency who have cut ...   12&12 p.28, Step Two
There will be those who have drifted into indifference, those filled with self-sufficiency who have cut themselves off, those who have become prejudiced against religion, and those who are downright defiant because God has failed to fulfill their demands.


42.
... those first days of convalescence, this will ...   BB p.129, The Family Afterward   Go to page 129 in the Big Book
During those first days of convalescence, this will do more to insure his sobriety than anything else.

43.
... those flaws which were basic, flaws which ...   12&12 p.80, Step Eight
We can go far beyond those things which were superficially wrong with us, to see those flaws which were basic, flaws which sometimes were responsible for the whole pattern of our lives.

44.
... those groups ought to be consulted.   12&12 p.189, Tradition Four (Long)
But when its plans concern the welfare of neighboring groups also, those groups ought to be consulted.


45.
... those groups ought to be consulted.   BB p.563(565), Appendix I, The A.A. Tradition   Display entire Appendix I
But when its plans concern the welfare of neighboring groups also, those groups ought to be consulted.

46.
... those hangover mornings when we alternated between ...   12&12 p.84, Step Nine
This will be a very different occasion, and in sharp contrast with those hangover mornings when we alternated between reviling ourselves and blaming the family (and everyone else) for our troubles.


47.
... those harmed, helpfulness to others, and the ...   BB xvi, Foreword to Second Edition   Display entire Foreword to Second Edition
Though he could not accept all the tenets of the Oxford Groups, he was convinced of the need for moral inventory, confession of personality defects, restitution to those harmed, helpfulness to others, and the necessity of belief in and dependence upon God.


48.
Those having religious affiliations will find here ...   BB p.28, There Is A Solution   Go to page 28 in the Big Book
Those having religious affiliations will find here nothing disturbing to their beliefs or ceremonies.

49.
... those having religious training, such a list ...   12&12 p.48, Step Four
To those having religious training, such a list would set forth serious violations of moral principles.


50.
... those he feared what his trouble had ...   BB p.156, A Vision For You   Go to page 156 in the Big Book
One morning he took the bull by the horns and set out to tell those he feared what his trouble had been.

51.
... those he still envies or hates.   12&12 p.39, Step Three
Bitterness still overpowers him when he broods upon those he still envies or hates.


52.
... those I would help of Thy Power, ...   BB p.63, How It Works   Go to page 63 in the Big Book
Take away my difficulties, that victory over them may bear witness to those I would help of Thy Power, Thy Love, and Thy Way of life.


53.
... those in bad health, and those who ...   BB p.132, The Family Afterward   Go to page 132 in the Big Book
Everybody knows that those in bad health, and those who seldom play, do not laugh much.


54.
... those in whom the problem had been ...   BB p.25, There Is A Solution   Go to page 25 in the Big Book
When, therefore, we were approached by those in whom the problem had been solved, there was nothing left for us but to pick up the simple kit of spiritual tools laid at our feet.


55.
... those insanely trivial excuses to drink.   BB p.120, To Wives   Go to page 120 in the Big Book
In a weak moment he may take your dislike of his high-stepping friends as one of those insanely trivial excuses to drink.

56.
... those intimate and harrowing aspects of his ...   12&12 p.185, Tradition Twelve
Enthusiastic over the spectacular recovery of a brother alcoholic, we'd sometimes discuss those intimate and harrowing aspects of his case meant for his sponsor's ear alone.


57.
... those last days of heavy drinking.   BB p.151, A Vision For You   Go to page 151 in the Big Book
But not so with us in those last days of heavy drinking.


58.
... those now in its fold, Alcoholics Anonymous ...   BB p.561(563), Appendix I, The A.A. Tradition   Display entire Appendix I
To those now in its fold, Alcoholics Anonymous has made the difference between misery and sobriety, and often the difference between life and death.

59.
... those occasions when alone, or in the ...   12&12 p.89, Step Ten
Then there are those occasions when alone, or in the company of our sponsor or spiritual adviser, we make a careful review of our progress since the last time.

60.
... those odd ones, what would decent people ...   12&12 p.140, Tradition Three
Besides, if we took in those odd ones, what would decent people say about us?

61.
... those of anyone else in A.A.   12&12 p.46, Step Four
They comfort the melancholy one by first showing him that his case is not strange or different, that his character defects are probably not more numerous or worse than those of anyone else in A.A.


62.
... those of many different nationalities.   BB xxii, Foreword to Third Edition   Display entire Foreword to Third Edition
The basic principles of the A.A. program, it appears, hold good for individuals with many different lifestyles, just as the program has brought recovery to those of many different nationalities.

63.
... those of politics, alcohol reform, or sectarian ...   12&12 p.192, Tradition Ten (Long)
Ten -- No A.A. group or member should ever, in such a way as to implicate A.A., express any opinion on outside controversial issues -- particularly those of politics, alcohol reform, or sectarian religion.


64.
... those of politics, alcohol reform, or sectarian ...   BB p.565(567), Appendix I, The A.A. Tradition   Display entire Appendix I
10. No A.A. group or member should ever, in such a way as to implicate A.A., express any opinion on outside controversial issues -- particularly those of politics, alcohol reform, or sectarian religion.


65.
Those of us belonging to a religious ...   BB p.74, Into Action   Go to page 74 in the Big Book
Those of us belonging to a religious denomination which requires confession must, and of course, will want to go to the properly appointed authority whose duty it is to receive it.

66.
... those of us who feel unable to ...   12&12 p.110, Step Twelve
There are many opportunities even for those of us who feel unable to speak at meetings or who are so situated that we cannot do much face-to-face Twelfth Step work.

67.
Those of us who have come to ...   12&12 p.97, Step Eleven
Those of us who have come to make regular use of prayer would no more do without it than we would refuse air, food, or sunshine.

68.
... those of us who have hitherto known ...   12&12 p.74, Step Seven
To those of us who have hitherto known only excitement, depression, or anxiety -- in other words, to all of us -- this newfound peace is a priceless gift.


69.
Those of us who have spent much ...   BB p.130, The Family Afterward   Go to page 130 in the Big Book
Those of us who have spent much time in the world of spiritual make-believe have eventually seen the childishness of it.


70.
... those of us who have tried to ...   BB p.132, The Family Afterward   Go to page 132 in the Big Book
But those of us who have tried to shoulder the entire burden and trouble of others find we are soon overcome by them.


71.
Those of us who live in large ...   BB p.19, There Is A Solution   Go to page 19 in the Big Book
Those of us who live in large cities are overcome by the reflection that close by hundreds are dropping into oblivion every day.

72.
Those of us who once felt this ...   12&12 p.96, Step Eleven
Those of us who once felt this way can certainly understand and sympathize.


73.
Those of us who travel drop in ...   BB p.162, A Vision For You   Go to page 162 in the Big Book
Those of us who travel drop in as often as we can.

74.
... those of us who were like that, ...   12&12 p.117, Step Twelve
For those of us who were like that, A.A. had a very special meaning.

75.
... those one-time agnostics who still cling to ...   12&12 p.96, Step Eleven
To certain newcomers and to those one-time agnostics who still cling to the A.A. group as their higher power, claims for the power of prayer may, despite all the logic and experience in proof of it, still be unconvincing or quite objectionable.


76.
... those other alcoholics?   BB p.154, A Vision For You   Go to page 154 in the Big Book
But what about his responsibilities -- his family and the men who would die because they would not know how to get well, ah -- yes, those other alcoholics?


77.
... those parts which seemed convenient and not ...   BB p.11, Bill's Story   Go to page 11 in the Big Book
For myself, I had adopted those parts which seemed convenient and not too difficult; the rest I disregarded.

78.
... those people who financially support them.   12&12 p.190, Tradition Six (Long)
Their management should be the sole responsibility of those people who financially support them.


79.
... those people who financially support them.   BB p.564(566), Appendix I, The A.A. Tradition   Display entire Appendix I
Their management should be the sole responsibility of those people who financially support them.

80.
... those personal flaws which are acutely troublesome ...   12&12 p.50, Step Four
Since Step Four is but the beginning of a lifetime practice, it can be suggested that he first have a look at those personal flaws which are acutely troublesome and fairly obvious.


81.
... those persons who really feels there is ...   BB p.135, The Family Afterward   Go to page 135 in the Big Book
His wife is one of those persons who really feels there is something rather sinful about these commodities, so she nagged, and her intolerance finally threw him into a fit of anger.


82.
... those principles into action at home.   BB p.98, Working With Others   Go to page 98 in the Big Book
When your prospect has made such reparation as he can to his family, and has thoroughly explained to them the new principles by which he is living, he should proceed to put those principles into action at home.

83.
... those right things of which we and ...   12&12 p.102, Step Eleven
Having opened our channel as best we can, we try to ask for those right things of which we and others are in the greatest need.


84.
... those risks than to stand before his ...   BB p.80, Into Action   Go to page 80 in the Big Book
After consulting with his wife and partner he came to the conclusion that it was better to take those risks than to stand before his Creator guilty of such ruinous slander.

85.
... those rules had been in effect everywhere, ...   12&12 p.140, Tradition Three
If all those rules had been in effect everywhere, nobody could have possibly joined A.A. at all, so great was the sum of our anxiety and fear.

86.
... those scores have since multiplied themselves into ...   12&12 p.142, Tradition Three
Since this was a very early group, those scores have since multiplied themselves into thousands.


87.
... those scrapes.   BB p.3, Bill's Story   Go to page 3 in the Big Book
There had been no real infidelity, for loyalty to my wife, helped at times by extreme drunkenness, kept me out of those scrapes.

88.
... those serious character flaws that made problem ...   12&12 p.73, Step Seven
Still goaded by sheer necessity, we reluctantly come to grips with those serious character flaws that made problem drinkers of us in the first place, flaws which must be dealt with to prevent a retreat into alcoholism once again.

89.
... those services for which we might otherwise ...   12&12 p.191, Tradition Eight (Long)
But we may employ alcoholics where they are going to perform those services for which we might otherwise have to engage nonalcoholics.


90.
... those services for which we might otherwise ...   BB p.564(566), Appendix I, The A.A. Tradition   Display entire Appendix I
But we may employ alcoholics where they are going to perform those services for which we might otherwise have to engage nonalcoholics.


91.
... those strange mental blank spots.   BB p.42, More About Alcoholism   Go to page 42 in the Big Book
I saw that will power and self-knowledge would not help in those strange mental blank spots.

92.
... those suggested by A.A.   12&12 p.35, Step Three
Already a willingness has been achieved to cast out one's own will and one's own ideas about the alcohol problem in favor of those suggested by A.A.


93.
... those there; if a business occasion, go ...   BB p.102, Working With Others   Go to page 102 in the Big Book
If it is a happy occasion, try to increase the pleasure of those there; if a business occasion, go and attend to your business enthusiastically.

94.
... those they serve."   12&12 p.172, Tradition Nine
"A.A., as such, ought never be organized; but we may create service boards or committees directly responsible to those they serve."


95.
... those they serve.   BB p.562(564), Appendix I, The A.A. Tradition   Display entire Appendix I
Nine -- A.A., as such, ought never be organized; but we may create service boards or committees directly responsible to those they serve.


96.
... those they serve.   BB p.574, Appendix VII, Twelve Concepts (Short Form)   Display entire Appendix VII
Written by co-founder Bill W. in 1962, the Twelve Concepts for World Service provide a group of related principles to help ensure that various elements of A.A.'s service structure remain responsive and responsible to those they serve.


97.
... those things for us which we could ...   BB p.25, There Is A Solution   Go to page 25 in the Big Book
He has commenced to accomplish those things for us which we could never do by ourselves.

98.
... those things which were superficially wrong with ...   12&12 p.80, Step Eight
We can go far beyond those things which were superficially wrong with us, to see those flaws which were basic, flaws which sometimes were responsible for the whole pattern of our lives.

99.
... those to whom we can make only ...   12&12 p.83, Step Nine
There will be those to whom we can make only partial restitution, lest complete disclosures do them or others more harm than good.


100.
... those, too, who suffer from grave emotional ...   BB p.58, How It Works   Go to page 58 in the Big Book
There are those, too, who suffer from grave emotional and mental disorders, but many of them do recover if they have the capacity to be honest.

101.
... those tormenting ghosts of yesterday gets more ...   12&12 p.55, Step Five
If we have swept the searchlight of Step Four back and forth over our careers, and it has revealed in stark relief those experiences we'd rather not remember, if we have come to know how wrong thinking and action have hurt us and others, then the need to quit living by ourselves with those tormenting ghosts of yesterday gets more urgent than ever.


102.
... those two years were up, I opened ...   BB p.174, Doctor Bob's Nightmare   Go to page 174 in the Big Book
When those two years were up, I opened an office downtown.

103.
... those unhappy lives which were the direct ...   12&12 p.97, Step Eleven
What about all those unhappy lives which were the direct result of unfortunate birth and uncontrollable circumstances?

104.
... those we criticize; we are trying to ...   12&12 p.67, Step Six
Here we are not trying to help those we criticize; we are trying to proclaim our own righteousness.

105.
... those we dislike we can begin to ...   12&12 p.93, Step Ten
With those we dislike we can begin to practice justice and courtesy, perhaps going out of our way to understand and help them.

106.
... those we had harmed, or freely given ...   12&12 p.32, Step Two
In no deep or meaningful sense had we ever taken stock of ourselves, made amends to those we had harmed, or freely given to any other human being without any demand for reward.

107.
... those we had hurt.   12&12 p.78, Step Eight
We got a pretty severe shock when we realized that we were preparing to make a face-to-face admission of our wretched conduct to those we had hurt.

108.
... those we have harmed, but amends at ...   12&12 p.86, Step Nine
We needn't wallow in excessive remorse before those we have harmed, but amends at this level should always be forthright and generous.

109.
... those we love.   12&12 p.93, Step Ten
We can try to stop making unreasonable demands upon those we love.

110.
... those we love because they need to ...   12&12 p.94, Step Ten
We sometimes hurt those we love because they need to be "taught a lesson," when we really want to punish.

111.
... those we should approach into several classes.   12&12 p.83, Step Nine
After we have made the list of people we have harmed, have reflected carefully upon each instance, and have tried to possess ourselves of the right attitude in which to proceed, we will see that the making of direct amends divides those we should approach into several classes.

112.
... those where people or new events throw ...   12&12 p.91, Step Ten
The quick inventory is aimed at our daily ups and downs, especially those where people or new events throw us off balance and tempt us to make mistakes.


113.
... those who are afflicted.   BB xiv, Foreword to First Edition   Display entire Foreword to First Edition
We simply wish to be helpful to those who are afflicted.

114.
... those who are downright defiant because God ...   12&12 p.28, Step Two
There will be those who have drifted into indifference, those filled with self-sufficiency who have cut themselves off, those who have become prejudiced against religion, and those who are downright defiant because God has failed to fulfill their demands.


115.
... those who are getting results from this ...   BB xiv, Foreword to First Edition   Display entire Foreword to First Edition
We shall be interested to hear from those who are getting results from this book, particularly from those who have commenced work with other alcoholics.


116.
... those who are, or who may be ...   BB p.18, There Is A Solution   Go to page 18 in the Big Book
We hope this volume will inform and comfort those who are, or who may be affected.

117.
... those who are still sick, there is ...   12&12 p.151, Tradition Five
For us, if we neglect those who are still sick, there is unremitting danger to our own lives and sanity.

118.
... those who are to be gravely affected?   12&12 p.86, Step Nine
Or do we first consult those who are to be gravely affected?


119.
... those who are unable to drink moderately ...   BB p.34, More About Alcoholism   Go to page 34 in the Big Book
For those who are unable to drink moderately the question is how to stop altogether.


120.
... those who are willing and able to ...   BB p.162, A Vision For You   Go to page 162 in the Big Book
Understanding our work, he can do this with an eye to selecting those who are willing and able to recover on a spiritual basis.


121.
... those who believe that alcoholism is entirely ...   BB xxix(xxvii), The Doctor's Opinion   Display entire Doctor's Opinion
I do not hold with those who believe that alcoholism is entirely a problem of mental control.


122.
... those who cannot afford private treatment, and ...   BB p.570(572), Appendix III, The Medical View on A.A.   Display entire Appendix III
Dr. John F. Stouffer, Chief Psychiatrist, Philadelphia General Hospital, citing his experience with A.A., said: "The alcoholics we get here at Philadelphia General are mostly those who cannot afford private treatment, and A.A. is by far the greatest thing we have been able to offer them.


123.
... those who cannot or will not stop.   BB p.148, To Employers   Go to page 148 in the Big Book
At the same time you will feel no reluctance to rid yourself of those who cannot or will not stop.


124.
... those who claimed Him.   BB p.11, Bill's Story   Go to page 11 in the Big Book
To Christ I conceded the certainty of a great man, not too closely followed by those who claimed Him.

125.
... those who could get well, and make ...   12&12 p.155, Tradition Six
We'd gather up derelicts from skid rows, sort out those who could get well, and make it possible for the rest to earn their livelihood in a kind of quarantined confinement.

126.
... those who did join us were like ...   12&12 p.139, Tradition Three
Hardly an alcoholic we approached paid any attention; most of those who did join us were like flickering candles in a windstorm.

127.
Those who did would sometimes assure us ...   12&12 p.79, Step Eight
Those who did would sometimes assure us that, after all, a lively bender was only a good man's fault.

128.
... those who didn't think much of us ...   12&12 p.78, Step Eight
We've repeatedly strained the patience of our best friends to a snapping point, and have brought out the very worst in those who didn't think much of us to begin with.


129.
Those who do not recover are people ...   BB p.58, How It Works   Go to page 58 in the Big Book
Those who do not recover are people who cannot or will not completely give themselves to this simple program, usually men and women who are constitutionally incapable of being honest with themselves.


130.
... those who do not understand -- once a ...   BB xxix(xxvii), The Doctor's Opinion   Display entire Doctor's Opinion
On the other hand -- and strange as this may seem to those who do not understand -- once a psychic change has occurred, the very same person who seemed doomed, who had so many problems he despaired of ever solving them, suddenly finds himself easily able to control his desire for alcohol, the only effort necessary being that required to follow a few simple rules.

131.
... those who don't know there's a way ...   12&12 p.151, Tradition Five
Under these compulsions of self-preservation, duty, and love, it is not strange that our Society has concluded that it has but one high mission -- to carry the A.A. message to those who don't know there's a way out.


132.
Those who drink moderately may be more ...   BB p.139, To Employers   Go to page 139 in the Big Book
Those who drink moderately may be more annoyed with an alcoholic than a total abstainer would be.


133.
... those who earnestly seek.   BB p.46, We Agnostics   Go to page 46 in the Big Book
To us, the Realm of Spirit is broad, roomy, all inclusive; never exclusive or forbidding to those who earnestly seek.

134.
... those who feel they need no inventory ...   12&12 p.46, Step Four
The sponsors of those who feel they need no inventory are confronted with quite another problem.


135.
... those who had been drinking twenty years.   BB p.33, More About Alcoholism   Go to page 33 in the Big Book
Several of our crowd, men of thirty or less, had been drinking only a few years, but they found themselves as helpless as those who had been drinking twenty years.

136.
... those who had faith already often become ...   12&12 p.62, Step Five
And even those who had faith already often become conscious of God as they never were before.


137.
... those who had insisted the Wrights would ...   BB p.53, We Agnostics   Go to page 52 in the Big Book
When others showed us that "God-sufficiency" worked with them, we began to feel like those who had insisted the Wrights would never fly.


138.
... those who have as yet found no ...   BB xxi, Foreword to Second Edition   Display entire Foreword to Second Edition
Yet it is our great hope that all those who have as yet found no answer may begin to find one in the pages of this book and will presently join us on the high road to a new freedom.

139.
... those who have become prejudiced against religion, ...   12&12 p.28, Step Two
There will be those who have drifted into indifference, those filled with self-sufficiency who have cut themselves off, those who have become prejudiced against religion, and those who are downright defiant because God has failed to fulfill their demands.

140.
... those who have been seriously affected, even ...   12&12 p.85, Step Nine
As soon as we begin to feel confident in our new way of life and have begun, by our behavior and example, to convince those about us that we are indeed changing for the better, it is usually safe to talk in complete frankness with those who have been seriously affected, even those who may be only a little or not at all aware of what we have done to them.


141.
... those who have commenced work with other ...   BB xiv, Foreword to First Edition   Display entire Foreword to First Edition
We shall be interested to hear from those who are getting results from this book, particularly from those who have commenced work with other alcoholics.

142.
... those who have drifted into indifference, those ...   12&12 p.28, Step Two
There will be those who have drifted into indifference, those filled with self-sufficiency who have cut themselves off, those who have become prejudiced against religion, and those who are downright defiant because God has failed to fulfill their demands.

143.
... those who have lost or rejected faith ...   12&12 p.28, Step Two
Sometimes A.A. comes harder to those who have lost or rejected faith than to those who never had any faith at all, for they think they have tried faith and found it wanting.

144.
... those who have made progress in A.A., ...   12&12 p.58, Step Five
To those who have made progress in A.A., it amounts to a clear recognition of what and who we really are, followed by a sincere attempt to become what we could be.


145.
... those who have not, and when the ...   BB p.124, The Family Afterward   Go to page 124 in the Big Book
We think each family which has been relieved owes something to those who have not, and when the occasion requires, each member of it should be only too willing to bring former mistakes, no matter how grievous, out of their hiding places.

146.
... those who have persisted have found strength ...   12&12 p.104, Step Eleven
All those who have persisted have found strength not ordinarily their own.


147.
... those who keep on, a good number ...   BB p.109, To Wives   Go to page 109 in the Big Book
Of those who keep on, a good number will become true alcoholics after a while.

148.
... those who keep on trying to practice ...   12&12 p.112, Step Twelve
We know this because we see monotony, pain, and even calamity turned to good use by those who keep on trying to practice A.A.'s Twelve Steps.

149.
... those who labor in service for us ...   12&12 p.171, Tradition Eight
Our Twelfth Step is never to be paid for, but those who labor in service for us are worthy of their hire.

150.
Those who look closely soon have the ...   12&12 p.130, Tradition One
Those who look closely soon have the key to this strange paradox.

151.
... those who may be only a little ...   12&12 p.85, Step Nine
As soon as we begin to feel confident in our new way of life and have begun, by our behavior and example, to convince those about us that we are indeed changing for the better, it is usually safe to talk in complete frankness with those who have been seriously affected, even those who may be only a little or not at all aware of what we have done to them.


152.
... those who might find out about his ...   BB p.155, A Vision For You   Go to page 155 in the Big Book
He told how he lived in constant worry about those who might find out about his alcoholism.


153.
... those who must find a way out.   BB p.153, A Vision For You   Go to page 153 in the Big Book
They will approach still other sick ones and fellowships of Alcoholics Anonymous may spring up in each city and hamlet, havens for those who must find a way out.

154.
... those who need our help would be ...   12&12 p.175, Tradition Nine
Our communications lines with those who need our help would be broken.

155.
... those who never had any faith at ...   12&12 p.28, Step Two
Sometimes A.A. comes harder to those who have lost or rejected faith than to those who never had any faith at all, for they think they have tried faith and found it wanting.

156.
... those who never tried it enough."   12&12 p.97, Step Eleven
It has been well said that "almost the only scoffers at prayer are those who never tried it enough."


157.
... those who occasionally land back in here ...   BB p.570(572), Appendix III, The Medical View on A.A.   Display entire Appendix III
Even among those who occasionally land back in here again, we observe a profound change in personality.

158.
... those who once had faith, but have ...   12&12 p.28, Step Two
Consider next the plight of those who once had faith, but have lost it.

159.
... those who ought to be dealt with ...   12&12 p.83, Step Nine
There will be those who ought to be dealt with just as soon as we become reasonably confident that we can maintain our sobriety.

160.
... those who recoil from prayer because they ...   12&12 p.105, Step Eleven
All this should be very encouraging news for those who recoil from prayer because they don't believe in it, or because they feel themselves cut off from God's help and direction.


161.
... those who seek Him.   BB p.46, We Agnostics   Go to page 46 in the Big Book
We found that God does not make too hard terms with those who seek Him.


162.
... those who seldom play, do not laugh ...   BB p.132, The Family Afterward   Go to page 132 in the Big Book
Everybody knows that those in bad health, and those who seldom play, do not laugh much.

163.
... those who, so assailed, had ever won ...   12&12 p.22, Step One
Few indeed were those who, so assailed, had ever won through in singlehanded combat.


164.
... those who stayed on with A.A. showed ...   BB xx, Foreword to Second Edition   Display entire Foreword to Second Edition
Of alcoholics who came to A.A. and really tried, 50% got sober at once and remained that way; 25% sobered up after some relapses, and among the remainder, those who stayed on with A.A. showed improvement.


165.
... those who suffer from alcoholism.   BB p.17, There Is A Solution   Go to page 17 in the Big Book
This is the great news this book carries to those who suffer from alcoholism.


166.
... those who think spirituality the way of ...   BB p.68, How It Works   Go to page 68 in the Big Book
We can laugh at those who think spirituality the way of weakness.


167.
... those who visited him at the hospital, ...   BB p.160, A Vision For You   Go to page 160 in the Big Book
Impressed by those who visited him at the hospital, he capitulated entirely when, later, in an upper room of this house, he heard the story of some man whose experience closely tallied with his own.

168.
... those who were only beginning and still ...   12&12 p.109, Step Twelve
Looking at those who were only beginning and still doubted themselves, the rest of us were able to see the change setting in.

169.
... those who would advise us, but all ...   12&12 p.37, Step Three
We'll listen politely to those who would advise us, but all the decisions are to be ours alone.


170.
... those within myself.   BB p.13, Bill's Story   Go to page 12 in the Big Book
But soon the sense of His presence had been blotted out by worldly clamors, mostly those within myself.

171.
... those wonders still unseen.   12&12 p.100, Step Eleven
Let us look now upon the sea and ponder what its mystery is; and let us lift our eyes to the far horizon, beyond which we shall seek all those wonders still unseen.


172.
... those words have proved to be far ...   BB xxiii, Foreword to Fourth Edition   Display entire Foreword to Fourth Edition
Like so much of A.A.'s basic text, those words have proved to be far more visionary than the founding members could ever have imagined.


173.
... those years, I'll never know, but she ...   BB p.178, Doctor Bob's Nightmare   Go to page 178 in the Big Book
How my wife kept her faith and courage during all those years, I'll never know, but she did.


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