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From the books  ...  Alcoholics Anonymous (Big Book) and Twelve Steps and Twelve Traditions (12 & 12)


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1.
... secure.   12&12 p.36, Step Three
Not only are we more independent, we are even more comfortable and secure.

2.
... secure among grown-up people, we would have ...   12&12 p.116, Step Twelve
It became clear that if we ever were to feel emotionally secure among grown-up people, we would have to put our lives on a give-and-take basis; we would have to develop the sense of being in partnership or brotherhood with all those around us.

3.
... secure and slothful later on -- only we ...   12&12 p.67, Step Six
And how often we work hard with no better motive than to be secure and slothful later on -- only we call that "retiring."

4.
... secure as he tries to attain these ...   12&12 p.64, Step Six
And he wishes to be reasonably safe and secure as he tries to attain these things.

5.
... secure by some unhealthy kind of domination ...   12&12 p.117, Step Twelve
Even when our fortunes had not ebbed that much and we nevertheless found ourselves alone in the world, we still vainly tried to be secure by some unhealthy kind of domination or dependence.

6.
... secure for so long as we try, ...   12&12 p.98, Step Eleven
And we will be comforted and assured that our own destiny in that realm will be secure for so long as we try, however falteringly, to find and do the will of our own Creator.

7.
... secure from Him sure and definite answers ...   12&12 p.103, Step Eleven
Of course, it is reasonable and understandable that the question is often asked: "Why can't we take a specific and troubling dilemma straight to God, and in prayer secure from Him sure and definite answers to our requests?"

8.
... secure in their persons, made no effort ...   12&12 p.42, Step Four
If men and women didn't exert themselves to be secure in their persons, made no effort to harvest food or construct shelter, there would be no survival.

9.
... secure ourselves.   12&12 p.115, Step Twelve
Where people had temporarily let us run their lives as though they were still children, we had felt very happy and secure ourselves.


10.
... secure their confidence when others fail.   BB p.89, Working With Others   Go to page 89 in the Big Book
You can secure their confidence when others fail.


11.
... secure their consent.   BB p.80, Into Action   Go to page 80 in the Big Book
Before taking drastic action which might implicate other people we secure their consent.


Passages from the Big Book Alcoholics Anonymous and the Twelve Steps and Twelve Traditions are reprinted with permission of A.A. World Services, Inc.  The A.A. Preamble, copyright © The A.A. Grapevine, Inc., is reprinted with permission.  Permission to reprint does not in any way imply affiliation with or endorsement by either Alcoholics Anonymous or The A.A. Grapevine, Inc.

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