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1.
... made.   12&12 p.39, Step Three
Of course the sponsor points out that our friend's life is still unmanageable even though he is sober, that after all, only a bare start on A.A.'s program has been made.

2.
... made.   12&12 p.18, Foreword
Proof that alcoholics could recover had been made.


3.
... made.   BB p.104, To Wives   Go to page 104 in the Big Book
We want to analyze mistakes we have made.


4.
... made a beginning.   BB p.35, More About Alcoholism   Go to page 35 in the Big Book
He made a beginning.

5.
... made a beginning on Step Three.   12&12 p.35, Step Three
Every man and woman who has joined A.A. and intends to stick has, without realizing it, made a beginning on Step Three.

6.
... made a beginning, we have seen, when ...   12&12 p.39, Step Three
He made a beginning, we have seen, when he commenced to rely upon A.A. for the solution of his alcohol problem.


7.
... made a decision, and an inventory of ...   BB p.71, How It Works   Go to page 71 in the Big Book
If you have already made a decision, and an inventory of your grosser handicaps, you have made a good beginning.

8.
"Made a decision to turn our will ...   12&12 p.34, Step Three
"Made a decision to turn our will and our lives over to the care of God as we understood Him."


9.
... Made a decision to turn our will ...   BB p.59, How It Works   Go to page 59 in the Big Book
3. Made a decision to turn our will and our lives over to the care of God as we understood Him.

10.
... made a far better job of living ...   12&12 p.118, Step Twelve
She naturally feels that for years she has made a far better job of living than he has.


11.
... made a favorite.   BB p.149, To Employers   Go to page 149 in the Big Book
He should not be made a favorite.


12.
... made a friend.   BB p.94, Working With Others   Go to page 94 in the Big Book
If your talk has been sane, quiet and full of human understanding, you have perhaps made a friend.


13.
... made a good beginning.   BB p.71, How It Works   Go to page 71 in the Big Book
If you have already made a decision, and an inventory of your grosser handicaps, you have made a good beginning.


14.
... made a host of fair-weather friends.   BB p.3, Bill's Story   Go to page 3 in the Big Book
I made a host of fair-weather friends.


15.
... made a journey to a certain western ...   BB p.153, A Vision For You   Go to page 153 in the Big Book
Years ago, in 1935, one of our number made a journey to a certain western city.

16.
"Made a list of all persons we ...   12&12 p.77, Step Eight
"Made a list of all persons we had harmed, and became willing to make amends to them all."


17.
... Made a list of all persons we ...   BB p.59, How It Works   Go to page 59 in the Big Book
8. Made a list of all persons we had harmed, and became willing to make amends to them all.


18.
... made a list of people I had ...   BB p.13, Bill's Story   Go to page 13 in the Big Book
We made a list of people I had hurt or toward whom I felt resentment.


19.
... made a little money.   BB p.7, Bill's Story   Go to page 7 in the Big Book
I went to town regularly and even made a little money.


20.
... made a long journey in the vain ...   BB p.174, Doctor Bob's Nightmare   Go to page 174 in the Big Book
There my drinking became so much worse that the boys in the fraternity house where I lived felt forced to send for my father, who made a long journey in the vain endeavor to get me straightened around.

21.
"Made a searching and fearless moral inventory ...   12&12 p.42, Step Four
"Made a searching and fearless moral inventory of ourselves."

22.
... made a searching and fearless moral inventory.   12&12 p.107, Step Twelve
We made a searching and fearless moral inventory.


23.
... Made a searching and fearless moral inventory ...   BB p.59, How It Works   Go to page 59 in the Big Book
4. Made a searching and fearless moral inventory of ourselves.


24.
... made a self-appraisal, how you straightened out ...   BB p.94, Working With Others   Go to page 94 in the Big Book
Outline the program of action, explaining how you made a self-appraisal, how you straightened out your past and why you are now endeavoring to be helpful to him.

25.
... made a true catalog of our defects ...   12&12 p.59, Step Five
How could we be certain that we had made a true catalog of our defects and had really admitted them, even to ourselves?


26.
... made a wise remark to the effect ...   BB p.124, The Family Afterward   Go to page 124 in the Big Book
Henry Ford once made a wise remark to the effect that experience is the thing of supreme value in life.

27.
... made a worse mess of trying to ...   12&12 p.71, Step Seven
But we are sure that no class of people in the world ever made a worse mess of trying to live by this formula than alcoholics.

28.
... made A.A. a national institution.   12&12 p.186, Tradition Twelve
Jack Alexander's famous Saturday Evening Post piece made A.A. a national institution.

29.
... made Alcoholics Anonymous what it is.   12&12 p.18, Foreword
It is hoped that this volume will afford all who read it a close-up view of the principles and forces which have made Alcoholics Anonymous what it is.


30.
... made all the plans and gave the ...   BB p.131, The Family Afterward   Go to page 131 in the Big Book
Mother made all the plans and gave the directions.


31.
... made all this?"   BB p.46, We Agnostics   Go to page 46 in the Big Book
Yet, in other moments, we found ourselves thinking, when enchanted by a starlit night, "Who, then, made all this?"

32.
... made amends to those we had harmed, ...   12&12 p.32, Step Two
In no deep or meaningful sense had we ever taken stock of ourselves, made amends to those we had harmed, or freely given to any other human being without any demand for reward.


33.
... made, an effect, sometimes a very great ...   BB p.63, How It Works   Go to page 63 in the Big Book
This was only a beginning, though if honestly and humbly made, an effect, sometimes a very great one, was felt at once.


34.
... made an effort to bring the man's ...   BB p.159, A Vision For You   Go to page 159 in the Big Book
They experienced a few distressing failures, but in those cases they made an effort to bring the man's family into a spiritual way of living, thus relieving much worry and suffering.

35.
... made an exhaustive study of a good-sized ...   12&12 p.122, Step Twelve
When A.A. was quite young, a number of eminent psychologists and doctors made an exhaustive study of a good-sized group of so-called problem drinkers.


36.
... made an explanation.   BB p.80, Into Action   Go to page 80 in the Big Book
After the sermon, he quietly got up and made an explanation.


37.
... made an important qualification.   BB p.101, Working With Others   Go to page 101 in the Big Book
You will note that we made an important qualification.

38.
... made, and renew the simple request: "Thy ...   12&12 p.103, Step Eleven
As the day goes on, we can pause where situations must be met and decisions made, and renew the simple request: "Thy will, not mine, be done."


39.
... made and thoughtful considerations given their needs.   BB p.131, The Family Afterward   Go to page 131 in the Big Book
New acquaintances who know nothing of alcoholism might be made and thoughtful considerations given their needs.

40.
... made clear.   12&12 p.17, Foreword
In it alcoholism was described from the alcoholic's point of view, the spiritual ideas of the Society were codified for the first time in the Twelve Steps, and the application of these Steps to the alcoholic's dilemma was made clear.


41.
... made clear the distinction between the alcoholic ...   BB p.44, We Agnostics   Go to page 44 in the Big Book
We hope we have made clear the distinction between the alcoholic and the non-alcoholic.


42.
... made conscious contact with God, it is ...   BB p.87, Into Action   Go to page 87 in the Big Book
Being still inexperienced and having just made conscious contact with God, it is not probable that we are going to be inspired at all times.


43.
... made decisions based on self which later ...   BB p.62, How It Works   Go to page 62 in the Big Book
Sometimes they hurt us, seemingly without provocation, but we invariably find that at some time in the past we have made decisions based on self which later placed us in a position to be hurt.

44.
"Made direct amends to such people wherever ...   12&12 p.83, Step Nine
"Made direct amends to such people wherever possible, except when to do so would injure them or others."


45.
... Made direct amends to such people wherever ...   BB p.59, How It Works   Go to page 59 in the Big Book
9. Made direct amends to such people wherever possible, except when to do so would injure them or others.


46.
... made for the second, third, and fourth ...   BB xi, Preface   Display entire Preface
Therefore, the first portion of this volume, describing the A.A. recovery program, has been left untouched in the course of revisions made for the second, third, and fourth editions.


47.
... made friend over to get me.   BB p.179, Doctor Bob's Nightmare   Go to page 179 in the Big Book
These good people notified my wife, who sent my newly made friend over to get me.

48.
... made good newspaper copy, but little else.   12&12 p.157, Tradition Six
That made good newspaper copy, but little else.


49.
... made him a free man.   BB p.28, There Is A Solution   Go to page 28 in the Big Book
Here was the terrible dilemma in which our friend found himself when he had the extraordinary experience, which as we have already told you, made him a free man.


50.
... made him skeptical, he finished his treatment ...   BB p.26, There Is A Solution   Go to page 26 in the Big Book
Though experience had made him skeptical, he finished his treatment with unusual confidence.

51.
... made him that way.   12&12 p.64, Step Six
Indeed, God made him that way.


52.
... made him willing to believe.   BB p.57, We Agnostics   Go to page 57 in the Big Book
Circumstances made him willing to believe.

53.
... made himself ready to receive it.   12&12 p.107, Step Twelve
What he has received is a free gift, and yet usually, at least in some small part, he has made himself ready to receive it.


54.
... made his livelihood?   BB p.155, A Vision For You   Go to page 155 in the Big Book
Why, he argued, should he lose the remainder of his business, only to bring still more suffering to his family by foolishly admitting his plight to people from whom he made his livelihood?


55.
... made his own diagnosis, and deciding his ...   BB xxxi(xxix), The Doctor's Opinion   Display entire Doctor's Opinion
The patient had made his own diagnosis, and deciding his situation hopeless, had hidden in a deserted barn determined to die.


56.
... made in it.   BB xi, Preface   Display entire Preface
Because this book has become the basic text for our Society and has helped such large numbers of alcoholic men and women to recovery, there exists strong sentiment against any radical changes being made in it.


57.
... made in some 50 foreign countries and ...   BB xv, Foreword to Second Edition   Display entire Foreword to Second Edition
All told, promising beginnings have been made in some 50 foreign countries and U.S. possessions.


58.
... made in this movement that cannot be ...   BB p.572(574), Appendix V, The Religious View on A.A.   Display entire Appendix V
"I think that psychologically speaking there is a point of advantage in the approach that is being made in this movement that cannot be duplicated.

59.
... made it plain that we couldn't be ...   12&12 p.185, Tradition Twelve
Our growth made it plain that we couldn't be a secret society, but it was equally plain that we couldn't be a vaudeville circuit, either.


60.
... made it possible for us doctors to ...   BB p.175, Doctor Bob's Nightmare   Go to page 175 in the Big Book
At that time I was not aware of the almost unlimited supply the government made it possible for us doctors to obtain, neither had I any knowledge of the bootlegger who soon appeared on the horizon.


61.
... made it seem unwise to absent myself.   BB p.172, Doctor Bob's Nightmare   Go to page 172 in the Big Book
This resolution I kept steadfastly for the next forty years, except when circumstances made it seem unwise to absent myself.


62.
... made it when we took inventory.   BB p.76, Into Action   Go to page 76 in the Big Book
We made it when we took inventory.


63.
... made little impression upon the problem as ...   BB xxix(xxvii), The Doctor's Opinion   Display entire Doctor's Opinion
Though the aggregate of recoveries resulting from psychiatric effort is considerable, we physicians must admit we have made little impression upon the problem as a whole.


64.
... made me sick.   BB p.11, Bill's Story   Go to page 11 in the Big Book
The wars which had been fought, the burnings and chicanery that religious dispute had facilitated, made me sick.


65.
... made me swallow hard.   BB p.10, Bill's Story   Go to page 10 in the Big Book
They made me swallow hard.

66.
... made millennium lies just ahead.   12&12 p.70, Step Seven
The immense resources now being harnessed promise such a quantity of material blessings that many have come to believe that a man-made millennium lies just ahead.


67.
... made mistakes.   BB p.107, To Wives   Go to page 107 in the Big Book
Under these conditions we naturally made mistakes.

68.
... made more acute because he cannot use ...   12&12 p.39, Step Three
He relies upon the assurance that his many troubles, now made more acute because he cannot use alcohol to kill the pain, can be solved, too.


69.
... made more material progress in the last ...   BB p.51, We Agnostics   Go to page 51 in the Big Book
This world of ours has made more material progress in the last century than in all the millenniums which went before.


70.
... made much progress had you not taken ...   BB p.94, Working With Others   Go to page 94 in the Big Book
Tell him you once felt as he does, but you doubt whether you would have made much progress had you not taken action.


71.
... made nine out of ten men drink ...   BB p.138, To Employers   Go to page 138 in the Big Book
I pointed out that I had had nothing to drink whatever for three years, and this in the face of difficulties that would have made nine out of ten men drink their heads off.

72.
... made no effort to harvest food or ...   12&12 p.42, Step Four
If men and women didn't exert themselves to be secure in their persons, made no effort to harvest food or construct shelter, there would be no survival.


73.
... made no fight whatever against the first ...   BB p.41, More About Alcoholism   Go to page 41 in the Big Book
Not only had I been off guard, I had made no fight whatever against the first drink.


74.
... made only a scratch.   BB xxi, Foreword to Second Edition   Display entire Foreword to Second Edition
So far, upon the total problem of several million actual and potential alcoholics in the world, we have made only a scratch.


75.
... made only the slowest progress.   BB xx, Foreword to Second Edition   Display entire Foreword to Second Edition
Without such support, A.A. could have made only the slowest progress.


76.
... made or engagement kept.   BB p.21, There Is A Solution   Go to page 21 in the Big Book
He has a positive genius for getting tight at exactly the wrong moment, particularly when some important decision must be made or engagement kept.


77.
... made our demonstration, done our part.   BB p.78, Into Action   Go to page 78 in the Big Book
We have made our demonstration, done our part.


78.
... made our own misery.   BB p.133, The Family Afterward   Go to page 133 in the Big Book
But it is clear that we made our own misery.


79.
... made our personal inventory, what shall we ...   BB p.72, Into Action   Go to page 72 in the Big Book
Having made our personal inventory, what shall we do about it?


80.
... made over the years in the Big ...   BB xii, Preface   Display entire Preface
All changes made over the years in the Big Book (A.A. members' fond nickname for this volume) have had the same purpose: to represent the current membership of Alcoholics Anonymous more accurately, and thereby to reach more alcoholics.

81.
... made peace with ourselves, the conviction follows ...   12&12 p.89, Step Ten
When our inventory is carefully taken, and we have made peace with ourselves, the conviction follows that tomorrow's challenges can be met as they come.


82.
... made plain that any expense will later ...   BB p.143, To Employers   Go to page 143 in the Big Book
If you propose such a procedure to him, it may be necessary to advance the cost of treatment, but we believe it should be made plain that any expense will later be deducted from his pay.

83.
... made problem drinkers of us in the ...   12&12 p.73, Step Seven
Still goaded by sheer necessity, we reluctantly come to grips with those serious character flaws that made problem drinkers of us in the first place, flaws which must be dealt with to prevent a retreat into alcoholism once again.

84.
... made progress in A.A., it amounts to ...   12&12 p.58, Step Five
To those who have made progress in A.A., it amounts to a clear recognition of what and who we really are, followed by a sincere attempt to become what we could be.


85.
... made something like this:   BB p.141, To Employers   Go to page 141 in the Big Book
Suppose an approach is made something like this:

86.
... made -- spiritual, mental, emotional, and physical.   12&12 p.117, Step Twelve
Nearly every sound human being experiences, at some time in life, a compelling desire to find a mate of the opposite sex with whom the fullest possible union can be made -- spiritual, mental, emotional, and physical.

87.
... made spiritual progress, we saw through these ...   12&12 p.115, Step Twelve
As we made spiritual progress, we saw through these fallacies.


88.
... made such reparation as he can to ...   BB p.98, Working With Others   Go to page 98 in the Big Book
When your prospect has made such reparation as he can to his family, and has thoroughly explained to them the new principles by which he is living, he should proceed to put those principles into action at home.

89.
... made -- that most individuals cannot recover unless ...   12&12 p.130, Tradition One
The moment this Twelfth Step work forms a group, another discovery is made -- that most individuals cannot recover unless there is a group.

90.
... made the 100 percent admission we were ...   12&12 p.68, Step Six
Only Step One, where we made the 100 percent admission we were powerless over alcohol, can be practiced with absolute perfection.


91.
... made the difference between misery and sobriety, ...   BB p.561(563), Appendix I, The A.A. Tradition   Display entire Appendix I
To those now in its fold, Alcoholics Anonymous has made the difference between misery and sobriety, and often the difference between life and death.

92.
... made the invention of alibis a fine ...   12&12 p.47, Step Four
We had made the invention of alibis a fine art.

93.
... made the list of people we have ...   12&12 p.83, Step Nine
After we have made the list of people we have harmed, have reflected carefully upon each instance, and have tried to possess ourselves of the right attitude in which to proceed, we will see that the making of direct amends divides those we should approach into several classes.


94.
... made the point-blank declaration that God had ...   BB p.11, Bill's Story   Go to page 11 in the Big Book
But my friend sat before me, and he made the point-blank declaration that God had done for him what he could not do for himself.


95.
... made the rounds of people he had ...   BB p.156, A Vision For You   Go to page 156 in the Big Book
Stepping into his car, he made the rounds of people he had hurt.


96.
... made their impressions everywhere.   BB xx, Foreword to Second Edition   Display entire Foreword to Second Edition
These made their impressions everywhere.


97.
... made them.   BB p.177, Doctor Bob's Nightmare   Go to page 177 in the Big Book
I used to promise my wife, my friends, and my children that I would drink no more -- promises which seldom kept me sober even through the day, though I was very sincere when I made them.


98.
... made them killjoys.   BB p.105, To Wives   Go to page 105 in the Big Book
If, on the other hand, they took nothing, their self-pity made them killjoys.

99.
... made, then the great advantages of doing ...   12&12 p.78, Step Eight
But if a willing start is made, then the great advantages of doing this will so quickly reveal themselves that the pain will be lessened as one obstacle after another melts away.


100.
... made these things possible, and we only ...   BB p.55, We Agnostics   Go to page 55 in the Big Book
They said God made these things possible, and we only smiled.

101.
... made this revealing statement: "It is important ...   12&12 p.184, Tradition Twelve
Its foreword made this revealing statement: "It is important that we remain anonymous because we are too few, at present, to handle the overwhelming number of personal appeals which may result from this publication.


102.
... made this statement to some of us: ...   BB p.43, More About Alcoholism   Go to page 43 in the Big Book
One of these men, staff member of a world-renowned hospital, recently made this statement to some of us: "What you say about the general hopelessness of the average alcoholic's plight is, in my opinion, correct.

103.
... made "to practice these principles in all ...   12&12 p.114, Step Twelve
Our basic troubles are the same as everyone else's, but when an honest effort is made "to practice these principles in all our affairs," well-grounded A.A.'s seem to have the ability, by God's grace, to take these troubles in stride and turn them into demonstrations of faith.


104.
... made to stop.   BB p.92, Working With Others   Go to page 92 in the Big Book
Give him an account of the struggles you made to stop.


105.
... made to the vice president of a ...   BB p.148, To Employers   Go to page 148 in the Big Book
The other day an approach was made to the vice president of a large industrial concern.

106.
... made up.   12&12 p.137, Tradition Two
"Although I asked Charlie for a little time to consider it, my own mind was about made up.


107.
... made up.   BB p.105, To Wives   Go to page 105 in the Big Book
In the morning we have kissed and made up.


108.
... made up his mind that until he ...   BB p.32, More About Alcoholism   Go to page 32 in the Big Book
He made up his mind that until he had been successful in business and had retired, he would not touch another drop.


109.
... made up his mind to quit drinking ...   BB p.39, More About Alcoholism   Go to page 39 in the Big Book
He made up his mind to quit drinking altogether.


110.
... made up my mind that I could ...   BB p.173, Doctor Bob's Nightmare   Go to page 173 in the Big Book
This went from bad to worse until sophomore spring when, after a prolonged period of drinking, I made up my mind that I could not complete my course, so I packed my grip and went South to spend a month on a large farm owned by a friend of mine.


111.
... made up my mind to go through ...   BB p.42, More About Alcoholism   Go to page 42 in the Big Book
But the moment I made up my mind to go through with the process, I had the curious feeling that my alcoholic condition was relieved, as in fact it proved to be.

112.
... made upon other people for too much ...   12&12 p.44, Step Four
Demands made upon other people for too much attention, protection, and love can only invite domination or revulsion in the protectors themselves -- two emotions quite as unhealthy as the demands which evoked them.


113.
... made us bristle with antagonism.   BB p.48, We Agnostics   Go to page 48 in the Big Book
Many of us have been so touchy that even casual reference to spiritual things made us bristle with antagonism.


114.
... made us cocky, it was worse.   BB p.68, How It Works   Go to page 68 in the Big Book
When it made us cocky, it was worse.

115.
... made us happy.   12&12 p.29, Step Two
This was exhilarating, and it made us happy.

116.
... made us hard to live with.   12&12 p.84, Step Nine
Almost always we want to go further and admit other defects that have made us hard to live with.

117.
... made us misers and penny pinchers all ...   12&12 p.121, Step Twelve
This made us misers and penny pinchers all over again.


118.
... made us slow to pay.   BB p.78, Into Action   Go to page 78 in the Big Book
Our drinking has made us slow to pay.


119.
... made use of old trunks and chests, ...   BB p.176, Doctor Bob's Nightmare   Go to page 176 in the Big Book
I also made use of old trunks and chests, the old can container, and even the ash container.


120.
... made with the chief psychiatrist of a ...   BB p.163, A Vision For You   Go to page 163 in the Big Book
Arrangements were also made with the chief psychiatrist of a large public hospital to select still others from the stream of misery which flows through that institution.


121.
... made worse by the things he does ...   BB p.73, Into Action   Go to page 73 in the Big Book
The inconsistency is made worse by the things he does on his sprees.


Passages from the Big Book Alcoholics Anonymous and the Twelve Steps and Twelve Traditions are reprinted with permission of A.A. World Services, Inc.  The A.A. Preamble, copyright © The A.A. Grapevine, Inc., is reprinted with permission.  Permission to reprint does not in any way imply affiliation with or endorsement by either Alcoholics Anonymous or The A.A. Grapevine, Inc.

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