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1.
... take.   12&12 p.111, Step Twelve
Here again we are presented with the temptation to overmanage things, and sometimes this results in rebuffs and other consequences which are hard to take.


2.
... take.   BB p.81, Into Action   Go to page 81 in the Big Book
Though there may be justifiable exceptions, and though we wish to lay down no rule of any sort, we have often found this the best course to take.


3.
... take.   BB p.86, Into Action   Go to page 86 in the Big Book
We may not be able to determine which course to take.


4.
... take a certain attitude toward that Power, ...   BB p.50, We Agnostics   Go to page 50 in the Big Book
They flatly declare that since they have come to believe in a Power greater than themselves, to take a certain attitude toward that Power, and to do certain simple things, there has been a revolutionary change in their way of living and thinking.


5.
... take a drink.   BB xxx(xxviii), The Doctor's Opinion   Display entire Doctor's Opinion
There is the type of man who is unwilling to admit that he cannot take a drink.


6.
... take a drink without danger.   BB xxx(xxviii), The Doctor's Opinion   Display entire Doctor's Opinion
There is the type who always believes that after being entirely free from alcohol for a period of time he can take a drink without danger.

7.
... take a hand in his domestic and ...   12&12 p.153, Tradition Five
Suppose I'd suggested that I'd take a hand in his domestic and business affairs?

8.
... take a job like this one?   12&12 p.158, Tradition Six
Straightway he appeared at New York's A.A. headquarters, asking, "Is there anything in our tradition that suggests I shouldn't take a job like this one?


9.
... take a kindly and tolerant view of ...   BB p.67, How It Works   Go to page 67 in the Big Book
We cannot be helpful to all people, but at least God will show us how to take a kindly and tolerant view of each and every one.

10.
... take a look at the results normal ...   12&12 p.37, Step Three
Should his own image in the mirror be too awful to contemplate (and it usually is), he might first take a look at the results normal people are getting from self-sufficiency.

11.
... take a look backward and try to ...   12&12 p.77, Step Eight
First, we take a look backward and try to discover where we have been at fault; next we make a vigorous attempt to repair the damage we have done; and third, having thus cleaned away the debris of the past, we consider how, with our newfound knowledge of ourselves, we may develop the best possible relations with every human being we know.

12.
... take a lot of money -- other people's ...   12&12 p.147, Tradition Four
This would all take a lot of money -- other people's money.

13.
... take a lot of undoing later on.   12&12 p.118, Step Twelve
A pattern is thereby established that may take a lot of undoing later on.


14.
... take a position with such a man ...   BB p.148, To Employers   Go to page 148 in the Big Book
He will be able to take a position with such a man which is eminently fair and square.

15.
... take a specific and troubling dilemma straight ...   12&12 p.103, Step Eleven
Of course, it is reasonable and understandable that the question is often asked: "Why can't we take a specific and troubling dilemma straight to God, and in prayer secure from Him sure and definite answers to our requests?"


16.
... take a still greater hold on father.   BB p.129, The Family Afterward   Go to page 129 in the Big Book
If the family persists in criticism, this fallacy may take a still greater hold on father.


17.
... take a turn for the better.   BB p.147, To Employers   Go to page 147 in the Big Book
So, for one reason or another, they cover these men, hoping matters will take a turn for the better.

18.
... take a universally recognized list of major ...   12&12 p.48, Step Four
To avoid falling into confusion over the names these defects should be called, let's take a universally recognized list of major human failings -- the Seven Deadly Sins of pride, greed, lust, anger, gluttony, envy, and sloth.


19.
... take a walk.   BB p.41, More About Alcoholism   Go to page 41 in the Big Book
After dinner I decided to take a walk.

20.
... take action toward their removal as quickly ...   12&12 p.69, Step Six
At the very least, we shall have to come to grips with some of our worst character defects and take action toward their removal as quickly as we can.


21.
... take advantage of intimate information.   BB p.125, The Family Afterward   Go to page 125 in the Big Book
This is a condition which, in ordinary life, would produce untold grief; there might be scandalous gossip, laughter at the expense of other people, and a tendency to take advantage of intimate information.


22.
... take advantage of the situation.   BB p.146, To Employers   Go to page 146 in the Big Book
Being on a radically different basis of life, he will never take advantage of the situation.


23.
... take advantage of your kindness.   BB p.141, To Employers   Go to page 141 in the Big Book
Seeing your attempt to understand and help, some men will try to take advantage of your kindness.

24.
... take advice and accept direction could we ...   12&12 p.59, Step Five
Only by discussing ourselves, holding back nothing, only by being willing to take advice and accept direction could we set foot on the road to straight thinking, solid honesty, and genuine humility.

25.
... take advice or suggestions from more experienced ...   12&12 p.173, Tradition Nine
This doesn't mean an A.A. won't take advice or suggestions from more experienced members, but he surely won't take orders.

26.
... take all such donations in the future.   12&12 p.164, Tradition Seven
Let's take all such donations in the future.


27.
... take an interest in them.   BB p.112, To Wives   Go to page 112 in the Big Book
You might suggest that you both take an interest in them.


28.
... take another illustration.   BB p.39, More About Alcoholism   Go to page 39 in the Big Book
Let us take another illustration.


29.
... take another look down the line.   BB p.149, To Employers   Go to page 149 in the Big Book
Even if you feel your organization has no alcoholic problem, it might pay to take another look down the line.

30.
... take any action that might greatly affect ...   12&12 p.189, Tradition Four (Long)
And no group, regional committee, or individual should ever take any action that might greatly affect A.A. as a whole without conferring with the trustees of the General Service Board.


31.
... take any action that might greatly affect ...   BB p.563(565), Appendix I, The A.A. Tradition   Display entire Appendix I
And no group, regional committee, or individual should ever take any action that might greatly affect A.A. as a whole without conferring with the trustees of the General Service Board.


32.
... take any particular medical point of view, ...   BB xx, Foreword to Second Edition   Display entire Foreword to Second Edition
Neither does A.A. take any particular medical point of view, though we cooperate widely with the men of medicine as well as with the men of religion.


33.
... take appreciative cognizance of this great therapeutic ...   BB p.569(571), Appendix III, The Medical View on A.A.   Display entire Appendix III
I think our profession must take appreciative cognizance of this great therapeutic weapon.


34.
... take, as a rule, one of two ...   BB p.125, The Family Afterward   Go to page 125 in the Big Book
At the beginning of recovery a man will take, as a rule, one of two directions.

35.
... take at day's end, when we review ...   12&12 p.89, Step Ten
There's the one we take at day's end, when we review the happenings of the hours just past.

36.
... take away any alcoholic's full chance was ...   12&12 p.141, Tradition Three
At last experience taught us that to take away any alcoholic's full chance was sometimes to pronounce his death sentence, and often to condemn him to endless misery.


37.
... take away his means of livelihood.   BB p.80, Into Action   Go to page 80 in the Big Book
If he opened that old affair, he was afraid it would destroy the reputation of his partner, disgrace his family and take away his means of livelihood.


38.
Take away my difficulties, that victory over ...   BB p.63, How It Works   Go to page 63 in the Big Book
Take away my difficulties, that victory over them may bear witness to those I would help of Thy Power, Thy Love, and Thy Way of life.

39.
... take basis; we would have to develop ...   12&12 p.116, Step Twelve
It became clear that if we ever were to feel emotionally secure among grown-up people, we would have to put our lives on a give-and-take basis; we would have to develop the sense of being in partnership or brotherhood with all those around us.


40.
... take care not to participate in their ...   BB p.100, Working With Others   Go to page 100 in the Big Book
When working with a man and his family, you should take care not to participate in their quarrels.


41.
... take care of his health.   BB p.112, To Wives   Go to page 112 in the Big Book
Say you do not want to be a wet blanket; that you only want him to take care of his health.


42.
... take care of such problems.   BB p.87, Into Action   Go to page 87 in the Big Book
We usually conclude the period of meditation with a prayer that we be shown all through the day what our next step is to be, that we be given whatever we need to take care of such problems.


43.
... take care of them?   BB p.128, The Family Afterward   Go to page 128 in the Big Book
What about his talk that God will take care of them?

44.
... take care of those awful debts, possess ...   12&12 p.121, Step Twelve
How could we ever take care of those awful debts, possess a decent home, educate the kids, and set something by for old age?

45.
... take care of us or that the ...   12&12 p.115, Step Twelve
When we had taken the opposite tack and had insisted, like infants ourselves, that people protect and take care of us or that the world owed us a living, then the result had been equally unfortunate.


46.
... take certain steps.   BB p.58, How It Works   Go to page 58 in the Big Book
If you have decided you want what we have and are willing to go to any length to get it -- then you are ready to take certain steps.

47.
... take discipline, stand up under fire, and ...   12&12 p.38, Step Three
Would they be able to take discipline, stand up under fire, and endure the monotony and misery of war?

48.
... take due note of things well done, ...   12&12 p.95, Step Ten
Having so considered our day, not omitting to take due note of things well done, and having searched our hearts with neither fear nor favor, we can truly thank God for the blessings we have received and sleep in good conscience.


49.
... take every necessary step, submit to anything ...   BB p.142, To Employers   Go to page 142 in the Big Book
Will he take every necessary step, submit to anything to get well, to stop drinking forever?

50.
... "Take, for example, my own case.   12&12 p.26, Step Two
The sponsor continues, "Take, for example, my own case.


51.
... take from the family life rather than ...   BB p.122, The Family Afterward   Go to page 122 in the Big Book
Is he not unconsciously trying to see what he can take from the family life rather than give?


52.
... take half a dozen drinks and get ...   BB p.152, A Vision For You   Go to page 152 in the Big Book
Inwardly he would give anything to take half a dozen drinks and get away with them.


53.
... take him many seasons of hard work ...   BB p.123, The Family Afterward   Go to page 123 in the Big Book
Father knows he is to blame; it may take him many seasons of hard work to be restored financially, but he shouldn't be reproached.

54.
... take in order to make a beginning ...   12&12 p.65, Step Six
So Step Six -- "Were entirely ready to have God remove all these defects of character" -- is A.A.'s way of stating the best possible attitude one can take in order to make a beginning on this lifetime job.


55.
... take in salvaging their sick employees.   BB p.139, To Employers   Go to page 139 in the Big Book
To me, this incident illustrates lack of understanding as to what really ails the alcoholic, and lack of knowledge as to what part employers might profitably take in salvaging their sick employees.

56.
... take in the deep meaning of each ...   12&12 p.99, Step Eleven
As beginners in meditation, we might now reread this prayer several times very slowly, savoring every word and trying to take in the deep meaning of each phrase and idea.


57.
... take innumerable forms, there are some general ...   BB p.79, Into Action   Go to page 79 in the Big Book
Although these reparations take innumerable forms, there are some general principles which we find guiding.

58.
... take inventory, and exert ourselves to do ...   12&12 p.49, Step Four
Once we have a complete willingness to take inventory, and exert ourselves to do the job thoroughly, a wonderful light falls upon this foggy scene.

59.
... take inventory in this respect we ought ...   12&12 p.52, Step Four
To take inventory in this respect we ought to consider carefully all personal relationships which bring continuous or recurring trouble.

60.
... take inventory of myself?"   12&12 p.50, Step Four
How do I take inventory of myself?"

61.
... "Take it easy.   12&12 p.26, Step Two
His sponsor probably says, "Take it easy.

62.
... 'take it easy'?   12&12 p.26, Step Two
But just how, in these circumstances, does a fellow 'take it easy'?


63.
... take it easy.   BB p.86, Into Action   Go to page 86 in the Big Book
We relax and take it easy.


64.
... take it or leave it alone.   BB p.20, There Is A Solution   Go to page 20 in the Big Book
How many times people have said to us: "I can take it or leave it alone.


65.
... take it or leave it alone.   BB p.20, There Is A Solution   Go to page 20 in the Big Book
They can take it or leave it alone.

66.
... take it out on other people?   12&12 p.51, Step Four
Did I take it out on other people?


67.
... take it, your past will be forgotten ...   BB p.147, To Employers   Go to page 147 in the Big Book
If you take it, your past will be forgotten and the fact that you went away for treatment will not be mentioned.


68.
... take long for you to decide, if ...   BB p.32, More About Alcoholism   Go to page 32 in the Big Book
It will not take long for you to decide, if you are honest with yourself about it.


69.
... take long to repair.   BB p.127, The Family Afterward   Go to page 127 in the Big Book
Let them remember that his drinking wrought all kinds of damage that may take long to repair.


70.
... take membership in a religious body.   BB p.131, The Family Afterward   Go to page 131 in the Big Book
Though the family has no religious connections, they may wish to make contact with or take membership in a religious body.

71.
... take much care, remembering that prudence is ...   12&12 p.61, Step Five
Here we ought to take much care, remembering that prudence is a virtue which carries a high rating.


72.
... take my exams, all of which I ...   BB p.173, Doctor Bob's Nightmare   Go to page 173 in the Big Book
After much argument they allowed me to return and take my exams, all of which I passed creditably.

73.
... take note of our improved outlook upon ...   12&12 p.122, Step Twelve
Let's here take note of our improved outlook upon the problems of personal importance, power, ambition, and leadership.

74.
... take on a world of meaning when ...   12&12 p.43, Step Four
Simple examples like the following take on a world of meaning when we think about them.


75.
... take on new meaning.   BB p.89, Working With Others   Go to page 89 in the Big Book
Life will take on new meaning.

76.
... take on the unspectacular but important tasks ...   12&12 p.110, Step Twelve
We can be the ones who take on the unspectacular but important tasks that make good Twelfth Step work possible, perhaps arranging for the coffee and cake after the meetings, where so many skeptical, suspicious newcomers have found confidence and comfort in the laughter and talk.

77.
... take orders.   12&12 p.173, Tradition Nine
This doesn't mean an A.A. won't take advice or suggestions from more experienced members, but he surely won't take orders.

78.
... take our big lumps as they come.   12&12 p.114, Step Twelve
Like most people, we have found that we can take our big lumps as they come.

79.
... take our first steps toward liberation and ...   12&12 p.21, Step One
We perceive that only through utter defeat are we able to take our first steps toward liberation and strength.

80.
... take our time.   12&12 p.84, Step Nine
Good judgment will suggest that we ought to take our time.


81.
... take out.   BB p.120, To Wives   Go to page 120 in the Big Book
You, as well as your husband, ought to think of what you can put into life instead of how much you can take out.


82.
... take out a little more insurance for ...   BB p.181, Doctor Bob's Nightmare   Go to page 181 in the Big Book
4. Because every time I do it I take out a little more insurance for myself against a possible slip.

83.
... take out some insurance against a slip.   12&12 p.151, Tradition Five
Maybe I should take out some insurance against a slip.

84.
... take over.   12&12 p.134, Tradition Two
The group conscience is about to take over.


85.
... take part in the daily discussion without ...   BB p.134, The Family Afterward   Go to page 134 in the Big Book
When this happens, they can be invited to join in morning meditation and then they can take part in the daily discussion without rancor or bias.


86.
... take patient waiting, but it will be ...   BB p.112, To Wives   Go to page 112 in the Big Book
This may take patient waiting, but it will be worth it.


87.
... take personal inventory and continue to set ...   BB p.84, Into Action   Go to page 84 in the Big Book
This thought brings us to Step Ten, which suggests we continue to take personal inventory and continue to set right any new mistakes as we go along.

88.
... take personal inventory and when we were ...   12&12 p.88, Step Ten
"Continued to take personal inventory and when we were wrong promptly admitted it."


89.
... take personal inventory and when we were ...   BB p.59, How It Works   Go to page 59 in the Big Book
10. Continued to take personal inventory and when we were wrong promptly admitted it.

90.
... take quite another view of this absolute ...   12&12 p.21, Step One
But upon entering A.A. we soon take quite another view of this absolute humiliation.

91.
... take responsibility for the well-being of others ...   12&12 p.87, Step Nine
For the readiness to take the full consequences of our past acts, and to take responsibility for the well-being of others at the same time, is the very spirit of Step Nine.

92.
... take satisfaction from the fact that many ...   12&12 p.67, Step Six
In a perverse way we can actually take satisfaction from the fact that many people annoy us, for it brings a comfortable feeling of superiority.


93.
... take sides in any argument he has ...   BB p.115, To Wives   Go to page 115 in the Big Book
Unless they actually need protection from their father, it is best not to take sides in any argument he has with them while drinking.

94.
... take sides in any fight, even a ...   12&12 p.176, Tradition Ten
As by some deep instinct, we A.A.'s have known from the very beginning that we must never, no matter what the provocation, publicly take sides in any fight, even a worthy one.


95.
... take small interest in the children and ...   BB p.126, The Family Afterward   Go to page 126 in the Big Book
He may take small interest in the children and may show irritation when reproved for his delinquencies.


96.
... take so much as one drink.   BB p.5, Bill's Story   Go to page 5 in the Big Book
I saw I could not take so much as one drink.


97.
... take so seriously his periods of crankiness, ...   BB p.127, The Family Afterward   Go to page 127 in the Big Book
If they sense these things, they will not take so seriously his periods of crankiness, depression, or apathy, which will disappear when there is tolerance, love, and spiritual understanding.


98.
... take space to relate all my hospital ...   BB p.177, Doctor Bob's Nightmare   Go to page 177 in the Big Book
I will not take space to relate all my hospital or sanitarium experiences.

99.
... take Step Nine.   12&12 p.83, Step Nine
Good judgment, a careful sense of timing, courage, and prudence -- these are the qualities we shall need when we take Step Nine.

100.
... take such personality traits as these into ...   12&12 p.81, Step Eight
When we take such personality traits as these into shop, office, and the society of our fellows, they can do damage almost as extensive as that we have caused at home.

101.
... take than Five.   12&12 p.55, Step Five
When it comes to ego deflation, few Steps are harder to take than Five.


102.
... take the bit in our teeth.   BB p.77, Into Action   Go to page 77 in the Big Book
Nevertheless, with a person we dislike, we take the bit in our teeth.

103.
Take the case of the club janitor ...   12&12 p.167, Tradition Eight
Take the case of the club janitor and cook.

104.
... take the chance of letting self-appointed members ...   12&12 p.187, Tradition Twelve
We simply couldn't afford to take the chance of letting self-appointed members present themselves as messiahs representing A.A. before the whole public.

105.
... take the full consequences of our past ...   12&12 p.87, Step Nine
For the readiness to take the full consequences of our past acts, and to take responsibility for the well-being of others at the same time, is the very spirit of Step Nine.

106.
... take the gift?   12&12 p.164, Tradition Seven
The question was: Should A.A. take the gift?

107.
... take the guy full of faith, but ...   12&12 p.31, Step Two
Now let's take the guy full of faith, but still reeking of alcohol.

108.
... take the job.   12&12 p.158, Tradition Six
"Of course I can't take the job.


109.
... take the lead.   BB p.83, Into Action   Go to page 83 in the Big Book
We must take the lead.


110.
... take the man into your home for ...   BB p.96, Working With Others   Go to page 96 in the Big Book
Perhaps you will want to take the man into your home for a few days.

111.
... take the measures necessary to shape my ...   12&12 p.52, Step Four
If I am unable to change the present state of affairs, am I willing to take the measures necessary to shape my life to conditions as they are?

112.
... take the money.   12&12 p.164, Tradition Seven
Yes, let's take the money.


113.
... take the morning drink which I craved ...   BB p.176, Doctor Bob's Nightmare   Go to page 176 in the Big Book
Most of the time, therefore, I did not take the morning drink which I craved so badly, but instead would fill up on large doses of sedatives to quiet the jitters, which distressed me terribly.


114.
... take the quantities some of us have.   BB p.33, More About Alcoholism   Go to page 33 in the Big Book
To be gravely affected, one does not necessarily have to drink a long time nor take the quantities some of us have.

115.
... take them.   12&12 p.74, Step Seven
These initial steps along the road are taken grudgingly, yet we do take them.


116.
... take them all -- every one?   BB p.76, Into Action   Go to page 76 in the Big Book
Can He now take them all -- every one?


117.
... take them away, root and branch.   BB p.13, Bill's Story   Go to page 13 in the Big Book
I ruthlessly faced my sins and became willing to have my new-found Friend take them away, root and branch.

118.
... take these troubles in stride and turn ...   12&12 p.114, Step Twelve
Our basic troubles are the same as everyone else's, but when an honest effort is made "to practice these principles in all our affairs," well-grounded A.A.'s seem to have the ability, by God's grace, to take these troubles in stride and turn them into demonstrations of faith.


119.
... take this intimate and confidential step.   BB p.74, Into Action   Go to page 74 in the Big Book
Rightly and naturally, we think well before we choose the person or persons with whom to take this intimate and confidential step.

120.
... take this job."   12&12 p.158, Tradition Six
"Nevertheless," we pointed out, "you still have a legal right to take this job."


121.
... take this spiritual step with an understanding ...   BB p.63, How It Works   Go to page 63 in the Big Book
We found it very desirable to take this spiritual step with an understanding person, such as our wife, best friend, or spiritual adviser.

122.
... take this Step?   12&12 p.23, Step One
Since Step One requires an admission that our lives have become unmanageable, how could people such as these take this Step?


123.
... take those risks than to stand before ...   BB p.80, Into Action   Go to page 80 in the Big Book
After consulting with his wife and partner he came to the conclusion that it was better to take those risks than to stand before his Creator guilty of such ruinous slander.

124.
... take time, maybe a lot of time.   12&12 p.92, Step Ten
Such a radical change in our outlook will take time, maybe a lot of time.


125.
... take time to clear away the wreck.   BB p.123, The Family Afterward   Go to page 123 in the Big Book
It will take time to clear away the wreck.


126.
... take up the study of medicine, entering ...   BB p.173, Doctor Bob's Nightmare   Go to page 173 in the Big Book
My next move was to take up the study of medicine, entering one of the largest universities in the country.


127.
... take up their beds and walk again.   BB p.19, There Is A Solution   Go to page 19 in the Big Book
After such an approach many take up their beds and walk again.


128.
... take us to better things, we believe ...   BB p.70, How It Works   Go to page 70 in the Big Book
If we are sorry for what we have done, and have the honest desire to let God take us to better things, we believe we will be forgiven and will have learned our lesson.

129.
... take what we had into the factories ...   12&12 p.156, Tradition Six
It occurred to us that we could take what we had into the factories and cause laborers and capitalists to love each other.


130.
... take whiskey if only he mixed it ...   BB p.37, More About Alcoholism   Go to page 36 in the Big Book
Yet all reasons for not drinking were easily pushed aside in favor of the foolish idea that he could take whiskey if only he mixed it with milk!


131.
... take with the husband who is recovering.   BB p.122, The Family Afterward   Go to page 122 in the Big Book
Our women folk have suggested certain attitudes a wife may take with the husband who is recovering.


132.
... take years to complete.   BB p.123, The Family Afterward   Go to page 123 in the Big Book
Though old buildings will eventually be replaced by finer ones, the new structures will take years to complete.


133.
... take, you are probably alcoholic.   BB p.44, We Agnostics   Go to page 44 in the Big Book
If, when you honestly want to, you find you cannot quit entirely, or if when drinking, you have little control over the amount you take, you are probably alcoholic.


134.
... take your best customers away from you.   BB p.145, To Employers   Go to page 145 in the Big Book
He may, for example, reveal that he has padded his expense account or that he has planned to take your best customers away from you.


135.
... take your dislike of his high-stepping friends ...   BB p.120, To Wives   Go to page 120 in the Big Book
In a weak moment he may take your dislike of his high-stepping friends as one of those insanely trivial excuses to drink.


136.
... take your health problems to such persons.   BB p.133, The Family Afterward   Go to page 133 in the Big Book
Do not hesitate to take your health problems to such persons.


137.
... take your liquor or leave it alone.   BB p.139, To Employers   Go to page 139 in the Big Book
As a moderate drinker, you can take your liquor or leave it alone.

138.
... take yourself too damn seriously."   12&12 p.149, Tradition Four
Once the card was unfolded, a single pungent sentence leaped to the eye: "Don't take yourself too damn seriously."


Passages from the Big Book Alcoholics Anonymous and the Twelve Steps and Twelve Traditions are reprinted with permission of A.A. World Services, Inc.  The A.A. Preamble, copyright © The A.A. Grapevine, Inc., is reprinted with permission.  Permission to reprint does not in any way imply affiliation with or endorsement by either Alcoholics Anonymous or The A.A. Grapevine, Inc.

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