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... person.
BB
Foreword to First Edition, p.xiii
2.
... person.
BB
Into Action, p.72
3.
... person.
BB
Into Action, p.74
4.
... person.
BB
Into Action, p.74
5.
... person.
BB
Into Action, p.81
6.
... person.
BB
Working With Others, p.90
7.
... person.
BB
To Wives, p.108
8.
... person.
12&12
Step Five, p.56
Psychiatrists and psychologists point out the deep need every human being has for practical insight and knowledge of his own personality flaws and for a
discussion of them with an understanding and trustworthy person.
9.
... person.
12&12
Step Five, p.60
10.
... person alone,
he may soon become convinced ...
BB
Working With Others, p.96
11.
... person and
should be treated accordingly.
BB
Working With Others, p.100
12.
... person; and
we were not above selfishness ...
BB
To Wives, p.116
We wives found that, like everybody else, we were afflicted with
pride, self-pity, vanity and all the things which go to make up the self-centered person; and we were not above selfishness or dishonesty.
13.
... person at
once?
BB
Into Action, p.86
14.
... person available.
BB
Into Action, p.74
Notwithstanding the great necessity for discussing ourselves
with someone, it may be one is
so situated that there is no
suitable person available.
15.
... person, but
we are sure we would ...
BB
Into Action, p.78
We have already admitted
this in confidence to another person, but we are sure we would be imprisoned
or lose our job if it were known.
16.
... person can
experience an entire psychic change ...
BB
The Doctor's Opinion, p.xxix
This is repeated over and over, and unless this person can experience an entire psychic change there is very little hope of his recovery.
17.
... person can
quit upon a nonspiritual basis ...
BB
More About Alcoholism, p.34
Whether such a person can quit upon a nonspiritual basis depends upon the extent to which he has
already lost the power to choose whether he will drink or not.
18.
... person capable
of enough willingness and honesty ...
12&12
Step Six, p.63
He goes on to explain that any person capable of enough willingness and honesty
to try repeatedly Step Six on all his faults -- without any reservations whatever -- has indeed come a long way spiritually, and is therefore entitled to be
called a man who is sincerely trying to grow in the image and likeness of his own Creator.
19.
... person concerned,
and lay our cards on ...
12&12
Step Nine, p.85
But if no such opportunity presents itself, at some point we will want to summon all our courage, head straight for the person concerned, and lay our cards on the table.
20.
... person concerned
not being present, we thought ...
12&12
Step Ten, p.94
Or, the person concerned
not being present, we thought we were helping others to understand him,
when in actuality our true
motive was to feel superior by pulling him down.
21.
... person continue
to turn his will and ...
12&12
Step Three, p.39
So how, exactly, can the willing person continue to turn his will and his life over to the Higher Power?
22.
... person could
never be the same again.
12&12
Step One, p.23
It was then discovered that when one alcoholic had planted in the mind of another the true nature of his malady, that
person could never be the same again.
23.
... person could
surely not be called a ...
12&12
Tradition Eight, p.168
Then we saw that if a hardworking secretary
answered the phone dozens of times a day, listened to twenty wailing wives, arranged hospitalization and got
sponsorship for ten newcomers, and was gently diplomatic with the irate drunk who complained about
the job she was doing and how
she was overpaid, then such
a person could surely not be
called a professional
A.A.
24.
... person's expense.
BB
Into Action, p.74
25.
... person facts
about ourselves which no others ...
12&12
Step Five, p.61
Perhaps we shall need to share with this person facts about ourselves which no others ought to know.
26.
... person fail
who has thoroughly followed our ...
BB
How It Works, p.58
27.
... person for
a whole day, or maybe ...
12&12
Step Ten, p.91
One unkind tirade or one willful snap judgment can ruin our relation with another person for a whole day, or maybe a whole year.
28.
... person for
guidance and protection.
12&12
Step Four, p.43
How frequently we see a frightened human being determined to depend completely upon a stronger person for guidance and protection.
29.
... person for
whom we pray.
12&12
Step Eleven, p.104
Such prayers, of course, are fundamentally good acts, but often they are based upon a supposition that we know God's will for the person for whom we pray.
30.
... person has
cancer all are sorry for ...
BB
There Is A Solution, p.18
31.
... person, I
have profound respect for the ...
BB
More About Alcoholism, p.43
Though not a religious
person, I have profound respect for the spiritual
approach in such cases as yours.
32.
... person, I
might have followed in their ...
BB
To Employers, p.137
33.
... person imposes
his instincts unreasonably upon others, ...
12&12
Step Four, p.44
34.
... person in
his line of business.
BB
A Vision For You, p.156
He trembled as he went
about, for this might mean ruin,
particularly to a person
in his line of business.
35.
... person in
whom to confide.
12&12
Contents (Step Five), p.6
36.
... person in
whom we are to confide.
12&12
Step Five, p.60
37.
... person involved
entirely.
BB
How It Works, p.67
Though a situation had
not been entirely our fault, we tried to disregard the other person involved entirely.
38.
... person is
in danger.
BB
To Wives, p.109
39.
... person is
like an actor who wants ...
BB
How It Works, p.60
Each person is like an actor who wants to run the whole show; is forever trying to arrange the lights, the ballet, the scenery and the rest of the players in his own way.
40.
... person is,
of course, very ancient.
12&12
Step Five, p.56
41.
... person is
that we can get his ...
12&12
Step Five, p.60
The benefit of talking to
another person is that we can
get his direct comment and counsel on our situation, and there can be no
doubt in our minds what that
advice is.
42.
... person, it
confirms that we have been ...
12&12
Step Five, p.60
When we are honest with another person, it confirms that we have been honest with ourselves and
with God.
43.
... person, it
frequently takes great resolution to ...
12&12
Step Five, p.61
44.
... person likes
to think he is bodily ...
BB
More About Alcoholism, p.30
45.
... person may
turn out to be one's ...
12&12
Step Five, p.61
46.
... person most
interested in him -- usually his ...
BB
Working With Others, p.90
If there is any indication
that he wants to stop, have a
good talk with the person most interested in him --
usually his wife.
47.
... person offended
we said to ourselves, "This ...
BB
How It Works, p.67
48.
... person or
argue.
BB
Into Action, p.77
49.
... person or
persons with whom to take ...
BB
Into Action, p.74
Rightly and naturally,
we think well before we choose the person or persons with whom to take this intimate and confidential step.
50.
... person, our
emotions go on the defensive.
12&12
Step Eight, p.78
The moment we ponder a twisted or broken relationship with another person, our emotions go on the defensive.
51.
... person, place,
thing or situation as being ...
BB
Acceptance, p.417
When I am disturbed, it is because I find some person, place, thing or situation -- some fact of my life -- unacceptable to me, and I can find no serenity until I accept that person, place, thing or situation as being exactly the way it is supposed to be at this moment.
52.
... person, place,
thing or situation -- some fact ...
BB
Acceptance, p.417
When I am disturbed, it is because I find some person, place, thing or situation -- some fact of my life -- unacceptable to me, and I can find no serenity until I accept that person, place, thing or situation as being exactly the way it is supposed to be at this moment.
53.
... person places
sex desire ahead of everything ...
12&12
Step Four, p.43
54.
... person quick
to see and understand our ...
BB
Into Action, p.74
55.
... person should
head the job?
12&12
Tradition Six, p.157
56.
... person sobered
up, and after doing all ...
12&12
Step Twelve, p.111
For example, we may set our hearts on getting a particular person sobered up, and after doing all we can for months, we see him relapse.
57.
... person, such
as our wife, best friend, ...
BB
How It Works, p.63
We found it very desirable to take this spiritual step with an understanding person, such as our wife, best friend, or spiritual adviser.
58.
... person unless
we are sure he would ...
BB
The Family Afterward, p.125
Another principle we observe carefully is that
we do not relate intimate
experiences of another
person unless we are sure he would approve.
59.
... person upon
whom she can vent jealousy.
BB
Into Action, p.82
60.
... person wants,
for example, to eat, to ...
12&12
Step Six, p.64
Every normal person wants, for example, to eat, to reproduce, to be somebody
in the society of his fellows.
61.
... person we
dislike, we take the bit ...
BB
Into Action, p.77
62.
... person when
we see good reasons why ...
BB
Into Action, p.72
We will be more reconciled to discussing ourselves
with another person when we
see good reasons why we should do so.
63.
... person who
has had experience with an ...
BB
Working With Others, p.101
To a person who has had experience with an alcoholic, this may seem like tempting Providence, but it isn't.
64.
... person who
has recovered.
BB
Working With Others, p.90
65.
... person who
lives with a woman alcoholic ...
BB
To Wives (Note), p.104
(*) Written in 1939, when
there were few women in A.A., this chapter assumes that the alcoholic
in the home is likely to be
the husband. But many of the
suggestions given here may be adapted to help the person who lives with a woman alcoholic -- whether she is
still drinking or is recovering in A.A. A further source of help is noted on page 121.
66.
... person who
seemed doomed, who had so ...
BB
The Doctor's Opinion, p.xxix
On the other hand -- and strange as this may seem to those who do not understand
-- once a psychic change has occurred, the very same person who seemed doomed, who had so many problems he despaired of
ever solving them, suddenly finds himself easily able to control his desire for alcohol, the only
effort necessary being that required to follow a few simple rules.
67.
... person who
wants to eat in a ...
BB
Working With Others, p.102
68.
... person whose
support can be obtained.
12&12
Tradition Eleven, p.181
A worthy charity wants to raise money; forthwith, its letterhead shows the name of every distinguished person whose support can be obtained.
69.
... person with
God on his side.
BB
The Family Afterward, p.129
Dad may feel that for years his drinking has placed him on the wrong side of every argument, but that now he has become a superior person with God on his side.
70.
... person, with
this qualification -- being perhaps fatally ...
BB
To Employers, p.142
Say that you believe he is a
gravely ill person, with this qualification -- being perhaps fatally ill, does he want to get well?
71.
... person, you
had better use everyday language ...
BB
Working With Others, p.93
When dealing with such a
person, you had better use everyday language to describe spiritual principles.
72.
... person, you
will have created a new ...
BB
To Wives, p.115
When you have carefully explained to such people that he is a sick person, you will have created a new atmosphere.
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