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1.
... living.   12&12 p.36, Step Three
Let's examine for a moment this idea of dependence at the level of everyday living.

2.
... living.   12&12 p.71, Step Seven
We had lacked the perspective to see that character-building and spiritual values had to come first, and that material satisfactions were not the purpose of living.

3.
... living.   12&12 p.72, Step Seven
We never thought of making honesty, tolerance, and true love of man and God the daily basis of living.

4.
... living.   12&12 p.95, Step Ten
Learning daily to spot, admit, and correct these flaws is the essence of character-building and good living.

5.
... living.   12&12 p.114, Step Twelve
Only by this means can we improve our chances for really happy and useful living.


6.
... living.   BB p.124, The Family Afterward   Go to page 124 in the Big Book
We think that such a view is self-centered and in direct conflict with the new way of living.

7.
... living alone with our conflicts, and in ...   12&12 p.108, Step Twelve
We knew we would have to quit the deadly business of living alone with our conflicts, and in honesty confide these to God and another human being.


8.
... living and thinking.   BB p.50, We Agnostics   Go to page 50 in the Big Book
They flatly declare that since they have come to believe in a Power greater than themselves, to take a certain attitude toward that Power, and to do certain simple things, there has been a revolutionary change in their way of living and thinking.


9.
... living and thinking.   BB p.134, The Family Afterward   Go to page 134 in the Big Book
This may hang on for months, long after their mother has accepted dad's new way of living and thinking.

10.
... living, and we keenly realized that we ...   12&12 p.108, Step Twelve
By this time, at Step Ten, we had begun to get a basis for daily living, and we keenly realized that we would need to continue taking personal inventory, and that when we were in the wrong we ought to admit it promptly.

11.
... living as eagerly as we do the ...   12&12 p.111, Step Twelve
Can we love the whole pattern of living as eagerly as we do the small segment of it we discover when we try to help other alcoholics achieve sobriety?


12.
... living as we cleaned up the past.   BB p.84, Into Action   Go to page 84 in the Big Book
We vigorously commenced this way of living as we cleaned up the past.


13.
... living by faith and little else.   BB p.54, We Agnostics   Go to page 54 in the Big Book
In one form or another we had been living by faith and little else.

14.
... living by ourselves with those tormenting ghosts ...   12&12 p.55, Step Five
If we have swept the searchlight of Step Four back and forth over our careers, and it has revealed in stark relief those experiences we'd rather not remember, if we have come to know how wrong thinking and action have hurt us and others, then the need to quit living by ourselves with those tormenting ghosts of yesterday gets more urgent than ever.


15.
... Living Church, observes editorially: "The basis of ...   BB p.572(574), Appendix V, The Religious View on A.A.   Display entire Appendix V
The Episcopal magazine, The Living Church, observes editorially: "The basis of the technique of Alcoholics Anonymous is the truly Christian principle that a man cannot help himself except by helping others.


16.
... living Creator with whom we may form ...   BB p.28, There Is A Solution   Go to page 28 in the Big Book
If what we have learned and felt and seen means anything at all, it means that all of us, whatever our race, creed, or color are the children of a living Creator with whom we may form a relationship upon simple and understandable terms as soon as we are willing and honest enough to try.


17.
... living death.   BB p.150, To Employers   Go to page 150 in the Big Book
They have a new attitude, and they have been saved from a living death.


18.
... living example of my friend there remained ...   BB p.12, Bill's Story   Go to page 12 in the Big Book
Despite the living example of my friend there remained in me the vestiges of my old prejudice.

19.
... living for many, alcoholic or not.   12&12 p.16, Foreword
They see in them a way to happy and effective living for many, alcoholic or not.

20.
... living for which no amount of pomp ...   12&12 p.124, Step Twelve
Service, gladly rendered, obligations squarely met, troubles well accepted or solved with God's help, the knowledge that at home or in the world outside we are partners in a common effort, the well-understood fact that in God's sight all human beings are important, the proof that love freely given surely brings a full return, the certainty that we are no longer isolated and alone in self-constructed prisons, the surety that we need no longer be square pegs in round holes but can fit and belong in God's scheme of things -- these are the permanent and legitimate satisfactions of right living for which no amount of pomp and circumstance, no heap of material possessions, could possibly be substitutes.


21.
... living has its advantages for all.   BB xiii, Foreword to First Edition   Display entire Foreword to First Edition
And besides, we are sure that our way of living has its advantages for all.


22.
... living, he should proceed to put those ...   BB p.98, Working With Others   Go to page 98 in the Big Book
When your prospect has made such reparation as he can to his family, and has thoroughly explained to them the new principles by which he is living, he should proceed to put those principles into action at home.


23.
... living in a large community.   BB p.163, A Vision For You   Go to page 163 in the Big Book
We know of an A.A. member who was living in a large community.


24.
... living in our accustomed style.   BB p.4, Bill's Story   Go to page 4 in the Big Book
By the following spring we were living in our accustomed style.


25.
... living in that strange world of alcoholism ...   BB p.108, To Wives   Go to page 108 in the Big Book
Perhaps your husband has been living in that strange world of alcoholism where everything is distorted and exaggerated.

26.
... living in trying to do something about ...   12&12 p.112, Step Twelve
Can we find a new joy of living in trying to do something about all these things?


27.
... living infinitely more satisfying and, I hope, ...   BB p.43, More About Alcoholism   Go to page 42 in the Big Book
I have since been brought into a way of living infinitely more satisfying and, I hope, more useful than the life I lived before.


28.
... living is a most powerful health restorative.   BB p.133, The Family Afterward   Go to page 133 in the Big Book
We are convinced that a spiritual mode of living is a most powerful health restorative.


29.
... living is not a one-way street.   BB p.81, Into Action   Go to page 81 in the Big Book
Our design for living is not a one-way street.

30.
... living is still out of reach.   12&12 p.43, Step Four
Without a searching and fearless moral inventory, most of us have found that the faith which really works in daily living is still out of reach.

31.
... living is the theme of A.A.'s Twelfth ...   12&12 p.106, Step Twelve
The joy of living is the theme of A.A.'s Twelfth Step, and action is its key word.

32.
... living is the theme of A.A.'s Twelfth ...   12&12 p.125, Step Twelve
Understanding is the key to right principles and attitudes, and right action is the key to good living; therefore the joy of good living is the theme of A.A.'s Twelfth Step.

33.
... living is "Yes, all of these things ...   12&12 p.112, Step Twelve
The A.A. answer to these questions about living is "Yes, all of these things are possible."


34.
... living it.   BB p.25, There Is A Solution   Go to page 25 in the Big Book
But we saw that it really worked in others, and we had come to believe in the hopelessness and futility of life as we had been living it.


35.
Living modestly, my wife and I saved ...   BB p.2, Bill's Story   Go to page 2 in the Big Book
Living modestly, my wife and I saved $1,000.


36.
... living, one might say, to drink.   BB xxxi(xxix), The Doctor's Opinion   Display entire Doctor's Opinion
He had lost everything worthwhile in life and was only living, one might say, to drink.

37.
... living, rather than something unusual or set ...   12&12 p.90, Step Ten
And at length our inventories become a regular part of everyday living, rather than something unusual or set apart.

38.
... living than he has.   12&12 p.118, Step Twelve
She naturally feels that for years she has made a far better job of living than he has.


39.
... living" that really works.   BB p.28, There Is A Solution   Go to page 28 in the Big Book
A new life has been given us or, if you prefer, "a design for living" that really works.


40.
... living that works in rough going.   BB p.15, Bill's Story   Go to page 15 in the Big Book
It is a design for living that works in rough going.

41.
... living, then the result had been equally ...   12&12 p.115, Step Twelve
When we had taken the opposite tack and had insisted, like infants ourselves, that people protect and take care of us or that the world owed us a living, then the result had been equally unfortunate.

42.
... living; therefore the joy of good living ...   12&12 p.125, Step Twelve
Understanding is the key to right principles and attitudes, and right action is the key to good living; therefore the joy of good living is the theme of A.A.'s Twelfth Step.


43.
... living, thus relieving much worry and suffering.   BB p.159, A Vision For You   Go to page 159 in the Big Book
They experienced a few distressing failures, but in those cases they made an effort to bring the man's family into a spiritual way of living, thus relieving much worry and suffering.

44.
... living to practical use, day by day, ...   12&12 p.88, Step Ten
But when we approach Step Ten we commence to put our A.A. way of living to practical use, day by day, in fair weather or foul.


45.
... living together has come, it will be ...   BB p.99, Working With Others   Go to page 99 in the Big Book
When the time for living together has come, it will be apparent to both parties.


46.
... living too much alone, for drinking many ...   BB p.119, To Wives   Go to page 119 in the Big Book
It is probably true that you and your husband have been living too much alone, for drinking many times isolates the wife of an alcoholic.

47.
... living until he first backtracks and really ...   12&12 p.77, Step Eight
Every A.A. has found that he can make little headway in this new adventure of living until he first backtracks and really makes an accurate and unsparing survey of the human wreckage he has left in his wake.

48.
Living upon a basis of unsatisfied demands, ...   12&12 p.76, Step Seven
Living upon a basis of unsatisfied demands, we were in a state of continual disturbance and frustration.


49.
... living was so unsatisfactory.   BB p.51, We Agnostics   Go to page 51 in the Big Book
Leaving aside the drink question, they tell why living was so unsatisfactory.


50.
... living, we had a feeling of uselessness, ...   BB p.52, We Agnostics   Go to page 52 in the Big Book
We were having trouble with personal relationships, we couldn't control our emotional natures, we were a prey to misery and depression, we couldn't make a living, we had a feeling of uselessness, we were full of fear, we were unhappy, we couldn't seem to be of real help to other people -- was not a basic solution of these bedevilments more important than whether we should see newsreels of lunar flight?


51.
... living we really have, even under pressure ...   BB p.15, Bill's Story   Go to page 15 in the Big Book
The joy of living we really have, even under pressure and difficulty.

52.
... living were learned, new resources of courage ...   12&12 p.105, Step Eleven
He will also report that out of every season of grief or suffering, when the hand of God seemed heavy or even unjust, new lessons for living were learned, new resources of courage were uncovered, and that finally, inescapably, the conviction came that God does "move in a mysterious way His wonders to perform."


53.
... living which answered all my problems.   BB p.13, Bill's Story   Go to page 13 in the Big Book
My friend promised when these things were done I would enter upon a new relationship with my Creator; that I would have the elements of a way of living which answered all my problems.


54.
... living which demands rigorous honesty.   BB p.58, How It Works   Go to page 58 in the Big Book
They are naturally incapable of grasping and developing a manner of living which demands rigorous honesty.


55.
... living with an alcoholic is almost sure ...   BB p.122, The Family Afterward   Go to page 122 in the Big Book
A doctor said to us, "Years of living with an alcoholic is almost sure to make any wife or child neurotic.

56.
... living with us as practicing alcoholics difficult ...   12&12 p.81, Step Eight
Such a roster of harms done others -- the kind that make daily living with us as practicing alcoholics difficult and often unbearable -- could be extended almost indefinitely.


Passages from the Big Book Alcoholics Anonymous and the Twelve Steps and Twelve Traditions are reprinted with permission of A.A. World Services, Inc.  The A.A. Preamble, copyright © The A.A. Grapevine, Inc., is reprinted with permission.  Permission to reprint does not in any way imply affiliation with or endorsement by either Alcoholics Anonymous or The A.A. Grapevine, Inc.

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