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1.
... themselves.   12&12 p.66, Step Six
Such is the power of our instincts to overreach themselves.


2.
... themselves.   BB p.58, How It Works   Go to page 58 in the Big Book
Those who do not recover are people who cannot or will not completely give themselves to this simple program, usually men and women who are constitutionally incapable of being honest with themselves.


3.
... themselves.   BB p.73, Into Action   Go to page 73 in the Big Book
They only thought they had lost their egoism and fear; they only thought they had humbled themselves.


4.
... themselves.   BB p.103, Working With Others   Go to page 103 in the Big Book
We feel that each family, in the light of their own circumstances, ought to decide for themselves.


5.
... themselves?   BB p.107, To Wives   Go to page 107 in the Big Book
And even if they did not love their families, how could they be so blind about themselves?


6.
... themselves.   BB p.114, To Wives   Go to page 114 in the Big Book
The wives and children of such men suffer horribly, but not more than the men themselves.


7.
... themselves.   BB p.156, A Vision For You   Go to page 156 in the Big Book
Plenty of difficulties presented themselves.


8.
... themselves.   BB p.568(570), Appendix II, Spiritual Experience   Display entire Appendix II
With few exceptions our members find that they have tapped an unsuspected inner resource which they presently identify with their own conception of a Power greater than themselves.


9.
... themselves.   BB xxvi(xxiv), The Doctor's Opinion   Display entire Doctor's Opinion
You may rely absolutely on anything they say about themselves.


10.
... themselves again and we would forgive and ...   BB p.106, To Wives   Go to page 106 in the Big Book
Next day they would be themselves again and we would forgive and try to forget.

11.
... themselves all over the world.   12&12 p.168, Tradition Eight
Eight tons of books and literature per month do not package and channel themselves all over the world.

12.
... themselves an A.A. group provided that as ...   12&12 p.147, Tradition Four
So confident of this had we become that the original statement of A.A. tradition carried this significant sentence: "Any two or three alcoholics gathered together for sobriety may call themselves an A.A. group provided that as a group they have no other affiliation."

13.
... themselves an A.A. group, provided that, as ...   12&12 p.189, Tradition Three (Long)
Any two or three alcoholics gathered together for sobriety may call themselves an A.A. group, provided that, as a group, they have no other affiliation.


14.
... themselves an A.A. group, provided that, as ...   BB p.563(565), Appendix I, The A.A. Tradition   Display entire Appendix I
Any two or three alcoholics gathered together for sobriety may call themselves an A.A. group, provided that, as a group, they have no other affiliation.

15.
... themselves, and had they stuck to their ...   12&12 p.178, Tradition Ten
Had they been left to themselves, and had they stuck to their one goal, they might have found the rest of the answer.


16.
... themselves, and have discovered the joy of ...   BB p.163, A Vision For You   Go to page 163 in the Big Book
When a few men in this city have found themselves, and have discovered the joy of helping others to face life again, there will be no stopping until everyone in that town has had his opportunity to recover -- if he can and will.


17.
... themselves, and still more in the Power ...   BB xxvii(xxv), The Doctor's Opinion   Display entire Doctor's Opinion
They believe in themselves, and still more in the Power which pulls chronic alcoholics back from the gates of death.


18.
... themselves and their best results can be ...   BB p.569(571), Appendix III, The Medical View on A.A.   Display entire Appendix III
Dr. G. Kirby Collier, psychiatrist: "I have felt that A.A. is a group unto themselves and their best results can be had under their own guidance, as a result of their philosophy.

19.
... themselves and were able to justify the ...   12&12 p.60, Step Five
Lacking both practice and humility, they had deluded themselves and were able to justify the most arrant nonsense on the ground that this was what God had told them.

20.
... themselves are organized.   12&12 p.172, Tradition Nine
Then, in seeming contradiction, we proceed to create special service boards and committees which in themselves are organized.


21.
... themselves as helpless as those who had ...   BB p.33, More About Alcoholism   Go to page 33 in the Big Book
Several of our crowd, men of thirty or less, had been drinking only a few years, but they found themselves as helpless as those who had been drinking twenty years.

22.
... themselves as messiahs representing A.A. before the ...   12&12 p.187, Tradition Twelve
We simply couldn't afford to take the chance of letting self-appointed members present themselves as messiahs representing A.A. before the whole public.


23.
... themselves as 'self-insurance.'   BB p.572(574), Appendix V, The Religious View on A.A.   Display entire Appendix V
The A.A. plan is described by the members themselves as 'self-insurance.'

24.
... themselves before microphones and cameras.   12&12 p.185, Tradition Twelve
Others hurried to place themselves before microphones and cameras.


25.
... themselves certain facts about their lives.   BB p.72, Into Action   Go to page 72 in the Big Book
Time after time newcomers have tried to keep to themselves certain facts about their lives.

26.
... themselves cut off from God's help and ...   12&12 p.105, Step Eleven
All this should be very encouraging news for those who recoil from prayer because they don't believe in it, or because they feel themselves cut off from God's help and direction.


27.
... themselves exceptions to the rule, therefore nonalcoholic.   BB p.31, More About Alcoholism   Go to page 31 in the Big Book
By every form of self-deception and experimentation, they will try to prove themselves exceptions to the rule, therefore nonalcoholic.


28.
... themselves for others.   BB p.159, A Vision For You   Go to page 159 in the Big Book
It was transcended by the happiness they found in giving themselves for others.

29.
... themselves have been ill-conceived, but that makes ...   12&12 p.171, Tradition Eight
True, some of the projects to which A.A.'s have attached themselves have been ill-conceived, but that makes not the slightest difference with the principle involved.


30.
... themselves, if they are to re-create their ...   BB xxviii(xxvi), The Doctor's Opinion   Display entire Doctor's Opinion
In nearly all cases, their ideals must be grounded in a power greater than themselves, if they are to re-create their lives.

31.
... themselves into thousands.   12&12 p.142, Tradition Three
Since this was a very early group, those scores have since multiplied themselves into thousands.

32.
... themselves is the underlying cause of their ...   12&12 p.44, Step Four
Alcoholics especially should be able to see that instinct run wild in themselves is the underlying cause of their destructive drinking.


33.
... themselves, mother and children demand that he ...   BB p.131, The Family Afterward   Go to page 131 in the Big Book
Instead of developing new channels of activity for themselves, mother and children demand that he stay home and make up the deficiency.


34.
... themselves neglected.   BB p.126, The Family Afterward   Go to page 126 in the Big Book
The family will be affected also, pleasantly at first, as they feel their money troubles are about to be solved, then not so pleasantly as they find themselves neglected.

35.
... themselves off, those who have become prejudiced ...   12&12 p.28, Step Two
There will be those who have drifted into indifference, those filled with self-sufficiency who have cut themselves off, those who have become prejudiced against religion, and those who are downright defiant because God has failed to fulfill their demands.


36.
... themselves once more.   BB p.105, To Wives   Go to page 105 in the Big Book
Some of us veered from extreme to extreme, ever hoping that one day our loved ones would be themselves once more.

37.
... themselves ought to be fully supported by ...   12&12 p.190, Tradition Seven (Long)
Seven -- The A.A. groups themselves ought to be fully supported by the voluntary contributions of their own members.


38.
... themselves ought to be fully supported by ...   BB p.564(566), Appendix I, The A.A. Tradition   Display entire Appendix I
7. The A.A. groups themselves ought to be fully supported by the voluntary contributions of their own members.

39.
... themselves out of jobs, family, and friends ...   12&12 p.51, Step Four
But all alcoholics who have drunk themselves out of jobs, family, and friends will need to cross-examine themselves ruthlessly to determine how their own personality defects have thus demolished their security.

40.
... themselves "problem drinkers," but cannot endure the ...   12&12 p.33, Step Two
Some will be willing to term themselves "problem drinkers," but cannot endure the suggestion that they are in fact mentally ill.

41.
... themselves ruthlessly to determine how their own ...   12&12 p.52, Step Four
But all alcoholics who have drunk themselves out of jobs, family, and friends will need to cross-examine themselves ruthlessly to determine how their own personality defects have thus demolished their security.

42.
... themselves saved from death, but still floating ...   12&12 p.131, Tradition One
Like us, they had suddenly found themselves saved from death, but still floating upon a perilous sea.


43.
... themselves seemed more intelligent than that.   BB p.54, We Agnostics   Go to page 54 in the Big Book
The electrons themselves seemed more intelligent than that.

44.
... themselves solely to the relief of cancer.   12&12 p.150, Tradition Five
But once these men had hit upon a cure, once it became apparent that only by their united effort could this be accomplished, then all of them would feel bound to devote themselves solely to the relief of cancer.

45.
... themselves that really got us down.   12&12 p.30, Step Two
But it was the morality of the religionists themselves that really got us down.

46.
... themselves that the pain will be lessened ...   12&12 p.78, Step Eight
But if a willing start is made, then the great advantages of doing this will so quickly reveal themselves that the pain will be lessened as one obstacle after another melts away.


47.
... themselves, that their fellows may enjoy sound ...   BB p.133, The Family Afterward   Go to page 133 in the Big Book
Most of them give freely of themselves, that their fellows may enjoy sound minds and bodies.

48.
... themselves that they destroy their lives, they ...   12&12 p.64, Step Six
When men and women pour so much alcohol into themselves that they destroy their lives, they commit a most unnatural act.

49.
... themselves, the rest of us were able ...   12&12 p.109, Step Twelve
Looking at those who were only beginning and still doubted themselves, the rest of us were able to see the change setting in.

50.
... themselves to any number of ideas, people, ...   12&12 p.120, Step Twelve
In partnership with others -- women and men -- they can devote themselves to any number of ideas, people, and constructive projects.

51.
... themselves to attempting to rule their fellows.   12&12 p.43, Step Four
We have also seen men and women who go power-mad, who devote themselves to attempting to rule their fellows.

52.
... themselves to be secure in their persons, ...   12&12 p.42, Step Four
If men and women didn't exert themselves to be secure in their persons, made no effort to harvest food or construct shelter, there would be no survival.


53.
... themselves, to take a certain attitude toward ...   BB p.50, We Agnostics   Go to page 50 in the Big Book
They flatly declare that since they have come to believe in a Power greater than themselves, to take a certain attitude toward that Power, and to do certain simple things, there has been a revolutionary change in their way of living and thinking.

54.
... themselves to their liabilities.   12&12 p.46, Step Four
This is because people who are driven by pride of self unconsciously blind themselves to their liabilities.


55.
... themselves to this simple program, usually men ...   BB p.58, How It Works   Go to page 58 in the Big Book
Those who do not recover are people who cannot or will not completely give themselves to this simple program, usually men and women who are constitutionally incapable of being honest with themselves.

56.
... themselves to this sole aim.   12&12 p.178, Tradition Ten
The early members foresaw that they should dedicate themselves to this sole aim.

57.
... themselves to us as friends.   12&12 p.181, Tradition Eleven
On almost every newsfront, the men and women of the press have attached themselves to us as friends.

58.
... themselves -- two emotions quite as unhealthy as ...   12&12 p.44, Step Four
Demands made upon other people for too much attention, protection, and love can only invite domination or revulsion in the protectors themselves -- two emotions quite as unhealthy as the demands which evoked them.

59.
... themselves were trying to conceal.   12&12 p.56, Step Five
They will tell how they tried to carry the load alone; how much they suffered of irritability, anxiety, remorse, and depression; and how, unconsciously seeking relief, they would sometimes accuse even their best friends of the very character defects they themselves were trying to conceal.


60.
... themselves with as individuals.   BB p.28, There Is A Solution   Go to page 28 in the Big Book
We think it no concern of ours what religious bodies our members identify themselves with as individuals.


Passages from the Big Book Alcoholics Anonymous and the Twelve Steps and Twelve Traditions are reprinted with permission of A.A. World Services, Inc.  The A.A. Preamble, copyright © The A.A. Grapevine, Inc., is reprinted with permission.  Permission to reprint does not in any way imply affiliation with or endorsement by either Alcoholics Anonymous or The A.A. Grapevine, Inc.

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