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1.
... another.   12&12 p.89, Step Ten
Although all inventories are alike in principle, the time factor does distinguish one from another.

2.
... another.   12&12 p.178, Tradition Ten
At first, the society was composed entirely of alcoholics trying to help one another.


3.
... another.   BB p.26, There Is A Solution   Go to page 26 in the Big Book
For years he had floundered from one sanitarium to another.


4.
... another."   BB p.36, More About Alcoholism   Go to page 36 in the Big Book
That didn't seem to bother me so I tried another."


5.
... another.   BB p.80, Into Action   Go to page 80 in the Big Book
He thus used his own wrong-doing as a means of destroying the reputation of another.


6.
... another.   BB p.99, Working With Others   Go to page 99 in the Big Book
In some cases the wife will never come back for one reason or another.


7.
... another.   BB p.110, To Wives   Go to page 110 in the Big Book
He has been placed in one institution after another.

8.
... another a directive and enforce obedience, our ...   12&12 p.132, Tradition Two
When told that our Society has no president having authority to govern it, no treasurer who can compel the payment of any dues, no board of directors who can cast an erring member into outer darkness, when indeed no A.A. can give another a directive and enforce obedience, our friends gasp and exclaim, "This simply can't be. There must be an angle somewhere."

9.
... another addiction even worse stigmatized than alcoholism, ...   12&12 p.142, Tradition Three
Since I am the victim of another addiction even worse stigmatized than alcoholism, you may not want me among you.


10.
... another alcoholic.   BB xvi, Foreword to Second Edition   Display entire Foreword to Second Edition
He suddenly realized that in order to save himself he must carry his message to another alcoholic.


11.
... another alcoholic and try again.   BB p.96, Working With Others   Go to page 96 in the Big Book
Search out another alcoholic and try again.


12.
... another alcoholic has accomplished in a few ...   BB p.118, To Wives   Go to page 118 in the Big Book
We do not like the thought that the contents of a book or the work of another alcoholic has accomplished in a few weeks that for which we struggled for years.


13.
... another alcoholic in a few hours.   BB p.18, There Is A Solution   Go to page 18 in the Big Book
But the ex-problem drinker who has found this solution, who is properly armed with facts about himself, can generally win the entire confidence of another alcoholic in a few hours.


14.
... another alcoholic instead!   BB p.102, Working With Others   Go to page 102 in the Big Book
But if you are shaky, you had better work with another alcoholic instead!


15.
... another alcoholic, sharing experience, strength, and hope.   BB xxii, Foreword to Third Edition   Display entire Foreword to Third Edition
Each day, somewhere in the world, recovery begins when one alcoholic talks with another alcoholic, sharing experience, strength, and hope.


16.
... another alcoholic would save the day.   BB p.15, Bill's Story   Go to page 15 in the Big Book
This sometimes nearly drove me back to drink, but I soon found that when all other measures failed, work with another alcoholic would save the day.

17.
... another, and have become willing to have ...   12&12 p.74, Step Seven
But when we have taken a square look at some of these defects, have discussed them with another, and have become willing to have them removed, our thinking about humility commences to have a wider meaning.

18.
... another and make restitution for harm done?   12&12 p.24, Step One
Who wants to confess his faults to another and make restitution for harm done?

19.
... another, anyway?   12&12 p.80, Step Eight
What kinds of "harm" do people do one another, anyway?

20.
... another area and tries to tell the ...   12&12 p.173, Tradition Nine
Who is more unpopular than the oldtime A.A., full of wisdom, who moves to another area and tries to tell the group there how to run its business?


21.
... another as no nonalcoholic could.   BB xvi, Foreword to Second Edition   Display entire Foreword to Second Edition
This seemed to prove that one alcoholic could affect another as no nonalcoholic could.


22.
... another as you find among our western ...   BB p.162, A Vision For You   Go to page 162 in the Big Book
There are the same fast friendships, there is the same helpfulness to one another as you find among our western friends.

23.
... another bad result.   12&12 p.72, Step Seven
This lack of anchorage to any permanent values, this blindness to the true purpose of our lives, produced another bad result.


24.
... another, but they trace exactly the same ...   BB xxii, Foreword to Third Edition   Display entire Foreword to Third Edition
The Twelve Steps that summarize the program may be called los Doce Pasos in one country, les Douze Etapes in another, but they trace exactly the same path to recovery that was blazed by the earliest members of Alcoholics Anonymous.


25.
... another case, an alcoholic was sent to ...   BB p.145, To Employers   Go to page 145 in the Big Book
In another case, an alcoholic was sent to a hospital for treatment.


26.
... another case brought in by a physician ...   BB xxxi(xxix), The Doctor's Opinion   Display entire Doctor's Opinion
When I need a mental uplift, I often think of another case brought in by a physician prominent in New York.


27.
... another chance.   BB p.147, To Employers   Go to page 147 in the Big Book
If, on the contrary, you are sure he is doing his utmost, you may wish to give him another chance.

28.
... another clinched this determination until it became ...   12&12 p.141, Tradition Three
One dramatic experience after another clinched this determination until it became our universal tradition.


29.
... another cocktail.   BB p.41, More About Alcoholism   Go to page 41 in the Big Book
Then I ordered another cocktail.


30.
... another's conception of God.   BB p.46, We Agnostics   Go to page 46 in the Big Book
Much to our relief, we discovered we did not need to consider another's conception of God.

31.
Another crowd of A.A.'s says: "We were ...   12&12 p.30, Step Two
Another crowd of A.A.'s says: "We were plumb disgusted with religion and all its works.


32.
... another day.   BB p.4, Bill's Story   Go to page 4 in the Big Book
Tomorrow was another day.


33.
... another debacle with all its attendant suffering ...   BB p.22, There Is A Solution   Go to page 22 in the Big Book
If hundreds of experiences have shown him that one drink means another debacle with all its attendant suffering and humiliation, why is it he takes that one drink?


34.
... another difficulty is that you may become ...   BB p.119, To Wives   Go to page 119 in the Big Book
Still another difficulty is that you may become jealous of the attention he bestows on other people, especially alcoholics.

35.
... another discovery is made -- that most individuals ...   12&12 p.130, Tradition One
The moment this Twelfth Step work forms a group, another discovery is made -- that most individuals cannot recover unless there is a group.


36.
... another drink.   BB p.181, Doctor Bob's Nightmare   Go to page 181 in the Big Book
It never fails, if you go about it with one half the zeal you have been in the habit of showing when you were getting another drink.


37.
... another drink.   BB xvii, Foreword to Second Edition   Display entire Foreword to Second Edition
He never had another drink.


38.
... another drop.   BB p.32, More About Alcoholism   Go to page 32 in the Big Book
He made up his mind that until he had been successful in business and had retired, he would not touch another drop.


39.
... another drop but by nine o'clock I'd ...   BB p.158, A Vision For You   Go to page 158 in the Big Book
I've prayed to God on hangover mornings and sworn that I'd never touch another drop but by nine o'clock I'd be boiled as an owl."


40.
... another experience: A woman's voice came faintly ...   BB p.137, To Employers   Go to page 137 in the Big Book
Still another experience: A woman's voice came faintly over long distance from Virginia.


41.
Another feeling we are very likely to ...   BB p.118, To Wives   Go to page 118 in the Big Book
Another feeling we are very likely to entertain is one of resentment that love and loyalty could not cure our husbands of alcoholism.

42.
... another, for they knew he had them ...   12&12 p.144, Tradition Three
Dismayed, the elders looked at one another, for they knew he had them cold.

43.
... another friend drinking their morning coffee.   12&12 p.144, Tradition Three
Daylight found the master of the house and another friend drinking their morning coffee.


44.
... another glass of milk.   BB p.36, More About Alcoholism   Go to page 36 in the Big Book
I ordered another sandwich and decided to have another glass of milk.

45.
Another great dividend we may expect from ...   12&12 p.58, Step Five
Another great dividend we may expect from confiding our defects to another human being is humility -- a word often misunderstood.

46.
... another group more to their liking.   12&12 p.177, Tradition Ten
Disliking the attempt of some to manage a group, half its membership might angrily rush off to form another group more to their liking.

47.
... another, he had hitherto denied himself.   12&12 p.107, Step Twelve
In a very real sense he has been transformed, because he has laid hold of a source of strength which, in one way or another, he had hitherto denied himself.

48.
... another human being.   12&12 p.53, Step Four
The primary fact that we fail to recognize is our total inability to form a true partnership with another human being.

49.
... another human being.   12&12 p.59, Step Five
We'd have to have outside help if we were surely to know and admit the truth about ourselves -- the help of God and another human being.

50.
... another human being.   12&12 p.79, Step Eight
It had been embarrassing enough when in confidence we had admitted these things to God, to ourselves, and to another human being.

51.
... another human being.   12&12 p.108, Step Twelve
We knew we would have to quit the deadly business of living alone with our conflicts, and in honesty confide these to God and another human being.

52.
... another human being is humility -- a word ...   12&12 p.58, Step Five
Another great dividend we may expect from confiding our defects to another human being is humility -- a word often misunderstood.

53.
... another human being the exact nature of ...   12&12 p.55, Step Five
"Admitted to God, to ourselves, and to another human being the exact nature of our wrongs."


54.
... another human being the exact nature of ...   BB p.59, How It Works   Go to page 59 in the Big Book
5. Admitted to God, to ourselves, and to another human being the exact nature of our wrongs.


55.
... another human being, the exact nature of ...   BB p.72, Into Action   Go to page 72 in the Big Book
This requires action on our part, which, when completed, will mean that we have admitted to God, to ourselves, and to another human being, the exact nature of our defects.

56.
... another human being we could not stay ...   12&12 p.56, Step Five
Most of us would declare that without a fearless admission of our defects to another human being we could not stay sober.


57.
... another illustration.   BB p.39, More About Alcoholism   Go to page 39 in the Big Book
Let us take another illustration.


58.
... another kind of flight, a spiritual liberation ...   BB p.55, We Agnostics   Go to page 55 in the Big Book
Yet we had been seeing another kind of flight, a spiritual liberation from this world, people who rose above their problems.

59.
... another kind of hangover which we all ...   12&12 p.88, Step Ten
But there is another kind of hangover which we all experience whether we are drinking or not.

60.
... another kind of problem: the intellectually self-sufficient ...   12&12 p.29, Step Two
Now we come to another kind of problem: the intellectually self-sufficient man or woman.


61.
... another look down the line.   BB p.149, To Employers   Go to page 149 in the Big Book
Even if you feel your organization has no alcoholic problem, it might pay to take another look down the line.


62.
... another man.   BB p.111, To Wives   Go to page 111 in the Big Book
He may seek someone else to console him -- not always another man.

63.
Another may develop such an obsession for ...   12&12 p.43, Step Four
Another may develop such an obsession for financial security that he wants to do nothing but hoard money.

64.
... another melts away.   12&12 p.78, Step Eight
But if a willing start is made, then the great advantages of doing this will so quickly reveal themselves that the pain will be lessened as one obstacle after another melts away.


65.
... another of the leading universities of the ...   BB p.174, Doctor Bob's Nightmare   Go to page 173 in the Big Book
After many painful discussions, they finally gave me my credits and I migrated to another of the leading universities of the country and entered as a Junior that Fall.

66.
... another off in the name of God.   12&12 p.30, Step Two
How we loved to shout the damaging fact that millions of the 'good men of religion' were still killing one another off in the name of God.


67.
... another often produces the contrary effect.   BB p.125, The Family Afterward   Go to page 125 in the Big Book
A man may criticize or laugh at himself and it will affect others favorably, but criticism or ridicule coming from another often produces the contrary effect.

68.
... another or anybody else is not counted ...   12&12 p.177, Tradition Ten
Let us reemphasize that this reluctance to fight one another or anybody else is not counted as some special virtue which makes us feel superior to other people.


69.
... another paralyzing fear.   BB p.116, To Wives   Go to page 116 in the Big Book
There is another paralyzing fear.

70.
... another, "Perhaps it would be a good ...   12&12 p.133, Tradition Two
They say to one another, "Perhaps it would be a good idea if we continue to keep a firm hand on A.A. in this town.

71.
... another person.   12&12 p.60, Step Five
Somehow, being alone with God doesn't seem as embarrassing as facing up to another person.


72.
... another person.   BB p.72, Into Action   Go to page 72 in the Big Book
This is perhaps difficult -- especially discussing our defects with another person.


73.
... another person.   BB p.81, Into Action   Go to page 81 in the Big Book
We feel we ought to say to her that we have no right to involve another person.


74.
... another person at once?   BB p.86, Into Action   Go to page 86 in the Big Book
Have we kept something to ourselves which should be discussed with another person at once?


75.
... another person, but we are sure we ...   BB p.78, Into Action   Go to page 78 in the Big Book
We have already admitted this in confidence to another person, but we are sure we would be imprisoned or lose our job if it were known.


76.
... another person's expense.   BB p.74, Into Action   Go to page 74 in the Big Book
We have no right to save our own skin at another person's expense.

77.
... another person for a whole day, or ...   12&12 p.91, Step Ten
One unkind tirade or one willful snap judgment can ruin our relation with another person for a whole day, or maybe a whole year.

78.
... another person is, of course, very ancient.   12&12 p.56, Step Five
This practice of admitting one's defects to another person is, of course, very ancient.

79.
... another person is that we can get ...   12&12 p.60, Step Five
The benefit of talking to another person is that we can get his direct comment and counsel on our situation, and there can be no doubt in our minds what that advice is.

80.
... another person, it confirms that we have ...   12&12 p.60, Step Five
When we are honest with another person, it confirms that we have been honest with ourselves and with God.

81.
... another person, our emotions go on the ...   12&12 p.78, Step Eight
The moment we ponder a twisted or broken relationship with another person, our emotions go on the defensive.


82.
... another person unless we are sure he ...   BB p.125, The Family Afterward   Go to page 125 in the Big Book
Another principle we observe carefully is that we do not relate intimate experiences of another person unless we are sure he would approve.


83.
... another person when we see good reasons ...   BB p.72, Into Action   Go to page 72 in the Big Book
We will be more reconciled to discussing ourselves with another person when we see good reasons why we should do so.

84.
... another pleasant rationalization.   12&12 p.69, Step Six
Such a bluffing of oneself will have to go the way of many another pleasant rationalization.


85.
Another principle we observe carefully is that ...   BB p.125, The Family Afterward   Go to page 125 in the Big Book
Another principle we observe carefully is that we do not relate intimate experiences of another person unless we are sure he would approve.

86.
... another problem.   12&12 p.46, Step Four
The sponsors of those who feel they need no inventory are confronted with quite another problem.

87.
... another reason for our collective poverty.   12&12 p.160, Tradition Seven
There was another reason for our collective poverty.


88.
Another reason for the wide acceptance of ...   BB xx, Foreword to Second Edition   Display entire Foreword to Second Edition
Another reason for the wide acceptance of A.A. was the ministration of friends -- friends in medicine, religion, and the press, together with innumerable others who became our able and persistent advocates.

89.
... another reason for this singleness of purpose.   12&12 p.151, Tradition Five
There is another reason for this singleness of purpose.

90.
... another revolutionary change in our outlook.   12&12 p.74, Step Seven
This improved perception of humility starts another revolutionary change in our outlook.


91.
... another sandwich and decided to have another ...   BB p.36, More About Alcoholism   Go to page 36 in the Big Book
I ordered another sandwich and decided to have another glass of milk.


92.
... another serious drinker.   BB p.112, To Wives   Go to page 112 in the Big Book
Meanwhile you might try to help the wife of another serious drinker.

93.
... another similar temptation.   12&12 p.104, Step Eleven
We also fall into another similar temptation.

94.
... another solid obstacle.   12&12 p.78, Step Eight
When listing the people we have harmed, most of us hit another solid obstacle.


95.
... another statement which follows.   BB xxvi(xxiv), The Doctor's Opinion   Display entire Doctor's Opinion
The physician who, at our request, gave us this letter, has been kind enough to enlarge upon his views in another statement which follows.

96.
... another story about money.   12&12 p.163, Tradition Seven
There is another story about money.

97.
... another, that nothing like a central government ...   12&12 p.16, Foreword
Why is it, they ask, that in A.A. no member can be set in personal authority over another, that nothing like a central government can anywhere be seen?


98.
... another, the aggrieved one would unearth the ...   BB p.124, The Family Afterward   Go to page 124 in the Big Book
Then, under one provocation or another, the aggrieved one would unearth the old affair and angrily cast its ashes about.

99.
... another the true nature of his malady, ...   12&12 p.23, Step One
It was then discovered that when one alcoholic had planted in the mind of another the true nature of his malady, that person could never be the same again.

100.
... another, there would be no society.   12&12 p.42, Step Four
If there were no social instinct, if men cared nothing for the society of one another, there would be no society.


101.
... another, they cover these men, hoping matters ...   BB p.147, To Employers   Go to page 147 in the Big Book
So, for one reason or another, they cover these men, hoping matters will take a turn for the better.

102.
... another; they sought to find whatever personality ...   12&12 p.123, Step Twelve
The doctors weren't trying to find how different we were from one another; they sought to find whatever personality traits, if any, this group of alcoholics had in common.


103.
... another thing you might wish to do.   BB p.147, To Employers   Go to page 147 in the Big Book
There is another thing you might wish to do.


104.
Another time, as I opened a letter ...   BB p.136, To Employers   Go to page 136 in the Big Book
Another time, as I opened a letter which lay on my desk, a newspaper clipping fell out.


105.
Another time you may have to send ...   BB p.97, Working With Others   Go to page 97 in the Big Book
Another time you may have to send for the police or an ambulance.

106.
... another to do anything; nobody can be ...   12&12 p.129, Tradition One
No A.A. can compel another to do anything; nobody can be punished or expelled.


107.
... another trip to the asylum if he ...   BB p.35, More About Alcoholism   Go to page 35 in the Big Book
He knew he faced another trip to the asylum if he kept on.


108.
... another very sick, unreasonable person.   BB p.108, To Wives   Go to page 108 in the Big Book
He is just another very sick, unreasonable person.

109.
... another view of this absolute humiliation.   12&12 p.21, Step One
But upon entering A.A. we soon take quite another view of this absolute humiliation.


110.
... another, was vital to permanent recovery.   BB xvii, Foreword to Second Edition   Display entire Foreword to Second Edition
It also indicated that strenuous work, one alcoholic with another, was vital to permanent recovery.

111.
... another way of saying that we were ...   12&12 p.48, Step Four
For we had started to get perspective on ourselves, which is another way of saying that we were gaining in humility.


112.
... another, we discovered that faith had been ...   BB p.54, We Agnostics   Go to page 54 in the Big Book
So, in one way or another, we discovered that faith had been involved all the time!


113.
... another we had been living by faith ...   BB p.54, We Agnostics   Go to page 54 in the Big Book
In one form or another we had been living by faith and little else.

114.
... another, "We heard a radio program..."; and ...   12&12 p.180, Tradition Eleven
One voice says, "I read a piece in the newspapers..."; another, "We heard a radio program..."; and still another, "We saw a moving picture..." or "We saw something about A.A. on television...."

115.
... another, we resentfully focus on the wrong ...   12&12 p.78, Step Eight
To escape looking at the wrongs we have done another, we resentfully focus on the wrong he has done us.

116.
... another, "We saw a moving picture..." or ...   12&12 p.180, Tradition Eleven
One voice says, "I read a piece in the newspapers..."; another, "We heard a radio program..."; and still another, "We saw a moving picture..." or "We saw something about A.A. on television...."


117.
... another whiskey and poured it into more ...   BB p.36, More About Alcoholism   Go to page 36 in the Big Book
The experiment went so well that I ordered another whiskey and poured it into more milk.

118.
... another, "will that guy get drunk?"   12&12 p.144, Tradition Three
"When, oh when," groaned members to one another, "will that guy get drunk?"

119.
... another wonderful excuse for avoiding an inventory.   12&12 p.45, Step Four
We also clutch at another wonderful excuse for avoiding an inventory.

120.
... another word was said.   12&12 p.142, Tradition Three
Not another word was said.


Passages from the Big Book Alcoholics Anonymous and the Twelve Steps and Twelve Traditions are reprinted with permission of A.A. World Services, Inc.  The A.A. Preamble, copyright © The A.A. Grapevine, Inc., is reprinted with permission.  Permission to reprint does not in any way imply affiliation with or endorsement by either Alcoholics Anonymous or The A.A. Grapevine, Inc.

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