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1.
... told, and soon realizes for himself, that ...   12&12 p.73, Step Seven
Every newcomer in Alcoholics Anonymous is told, and soon realizes for himself, that his humble admission of powerlessness over alcohol is his first step toward liberation from its paralyzing grip.


2.
... told anything about alcohol by one who ...   BB p.103, Working With Others   Go to page 103 in the Big Book
We would not even do the cause of temperate drinking any good, for not one drinker in a thousand likes to be told anything about alcohol by one who hates it.


3.
... told her to say that I was ...   BB p.136, To Employers   Go to page 136 in the Big Book
I told her to say that I was not interested.


4.
... told her what he would try to ...   BB p.79, Into Action   Go to page 79 in the Big Book
He told her what he would try to do in the future.


5.
... told him about the course of action ...   BB p.157, A Vision For You   Go to page 157 in the Big Book
The two friends spoke of their spiritual experience and told him about the course of action they carried out.


6.
... told him about their drinking experiences.   BB p.157, A Vision For You   Go to page 157 in the Big Book
For an hour, the two friends told him about their drinking experiences.


7.
... told him he was through -- finally and ...   BB p.136, To Employers   Go to page 136 in the Big Book
I told him he was through -- finally and forever.

8.
... told him my own story.   12&12 p.152, Tradition Five
But I told him my own story.


9.
... told him that if he ever drank ...   BB p.20, There Is A Solution   Go to page 20 in the Big Book
"The doctor told him that if he ever drank again it would kill him, but there he is all lit up again."


10.
... told him this was his last chance."   BB p.138, To Employers   Go to page 138 in the Big Book
He has just returned from a three-months leave of absence, has taken a cure, looks fine, and to clinch the matter, the board of directors told him this was his last chance."


11.
... told him what we knew about alcoholism.   BB p.39, More About Alcoholism   Go to page 39 in the Big Book
We told him what we knew about alcoholism.


12.
... told him what we knew of alcoholism ...   BB p.35, More About Alcoholism   Go to page 35 in the Big Book
We told him what we knew of alcoholism and the answer we had found.


13.
... told himself he came to the hospital ...   BB p.39, More About Alcoholism   Go to page 39 in the Big Book
Far from admitting he was an alcoholic, he told himself he came to the hospital to rest his nerves.


14.
... told how he lived in constant worry ...   BB p.155, A Vision For You   Go to page 155 in the Big Book
He told how he lived in constant worry about those who might find out about his alcoholism.

15.
... told how his family had been reunited; ...   12&12 p.143, Tradition Three
He paid a fine tribute to the Fellowship; he told how his family had been reunited; he extolled the virtue of honesty; he recalled the joys of Twelfth Step work; and then he lowered the boom.

16.
... told: "How I do my Twelfth Step ...   12&12 p.173, Tradition Nine
Committees have instructed many an A.A. to stop working on a chronic backslider, only to be told: "How I do my Twelfth Step work is my business.


17.
... told how two men had appeared in ...   BB p.9, Bill's Story   Go to page 9 in the Big Book
In a matter of fact way he told how two men had appeared in court, persuading the judge to suspend his commitment.


18.
... told innumerable lies to protect our pride ...   BB p.105, To Wives   Go to page 105 in the Big Book
We have told innumerable lies to protect our pride and our husbands' reputations.


19.
... told is most instructive, for here was ...   BB p.40, More About Alcoholism   Go to page 40 in the Big Book
The story he told is most instructive, for here was a chap absolutely convinced he had to stop drinking, who had no excuse for drinking, who exhibited splendid judgment and determination in all his other concerns, yet was flat on his back nevertheless.


20.
... told me about an executive of the ...   BB p.138, To Employers   Go to page 138 in the Big Book
One day he told me about an executive of the same bank who, from his description, was undoubtedly alcoholic.

21.
... told me about yourself and your problems ...   12&12 p.153, Tradition Five
But from what you've told me about yourself and your problems and how you propose to lick them, I think I know what's wrong.'


22.
... told me, how they prophesied that if ...   BB p.41, More About Alcoholism   Go to page 41 in the Big Book
I now remembered what my alcoholic friends had told me, how they prophesied that if I had an alcoholic mind, the time and place would come -- I would drink again.


23.
... told me of cases where pressure of ...   BB p.140, To Employers   Go to page 140 in the Big Book
I well remember the shock I received when a prominent doctor in Chicago told me of cases where pressure of the spinal fluid actually ruptured the brain.


24.
... told me the market had gone to ...   BB p.6, Bill's Story   Go to page 6 in the Big Book
A morning paper told me the market had gone to hell again.


25.
... told me they would attempt to struggle ...   BB p.173, Doctor Bob's Nightmare   Go to page 173 in the Big Book
But they were much disgusted and told me they would attempt to struggle along without my presence.


26.
... told my wife of my mistress -- sex ...   BB p.65, How It Works   Go to page 65 in the Big Book
Mr. Brown -- told my wife of my mistress -- sex relations; self esteem (fear).


27.
... told myself I would manage better next ...   BB p.6, Bill's Story   Go to page 6 in the Big Book
As the whisky rose to my head I told myself I would manage better next time, but I might as well get good and drunk then.


28.
... told now.   BB p.55, We Agnostics   Go to page 55 in the Big Book
His story is so interesting that some of it should be told now.


29.
... told of a simple religious idea and ...   BB p.9, Bill's Story   Go to page 9 in the Big Book
They had told of a simple religious idea and a practical program of action.


30.
... told of the acute poisoning from which ...   BB p.157, A Vision For You   Go to page 157 in the Big Book
The man in the bed was told of the acute poisoning from which he suffered, how it deteriorates the body of an alcoholic and warps his mind.


31.
... told, promising beginnings have been made in ...   BB xv, Foreword to Second Edition   Display entire Foreword to Second Edition
All told, promising beginnings have been made in some 50 foreign countries and U.S. possessions.


32.
... told small tots that father was sick, ...   BB p.106, To Wives   Go to page 106 in the Big Book
We have told small tots that father was sick, which was much nearer the truth than we realized.


33.
... told someone else all their life story.   BB p.73, Into Action   Go to page 73 in the Big Book
But they had not learned enough of humility, fearlessness and honesty, in the sense we find it necessary, until they told someone else all their life story.


34.
... told that he was back in the ...   BB p.40, More About Alcoholism   Go to page 40 in the Big Book
One day we were told that he was back in the hospital.

35.
... told that our Society has no president ...   12&12 p.132, Tradition Two
When told that our Society has no president having authority to govern it, no treasurer who can compel the payment of any dues, no board of directors who can cast an erring member into outer darkness, when indeed no A.A. can give another a directive and enforce obedience, our friends gasp and exclaim, "This simply can't be. There must be an angle somewhere."

36.
... told that so far as alcohol is ...   12&12 p.22, Step One
Then we had been told that so far as alcohol is concerned, self-confidence was no good whatever; in fact, it was a total liability.

37.
... told that the majority of A.A. members ...   12&12 p.46, Step Four
First off, they can be told that the majority of A.A. members have suffered severely from self-justification during their drinking days.


38.
... told that we could not control our ...   BB xxvi(xxiv), The Doctor's Opinion   Display entire Doctor's Opinion
It did not satisfy us to be told that we could not control our drinking just because we were maladjusted to life, that we were in full flight from reality, or were outright mental defectives.

39.
... told the glorious news.   12&12 p.137, Tradition Two
I drew her aside and told the glorious news.

40.
... told them.   12&12 p.60, Step Five
Lacking both practice and humility, they had deluded themselves and were able to justify the most arrant nonsense on the ground that this was what God had told them.


41.
... told them the whole truth nor have ...   BB p.73, Into Action   Go to page 73 in the Big Book
We have seldom told them the whole truth nor have we followed their advice.


42.
... told they understood our men as we ...   BB p.106, To Wives   Go to page 106 in the Big Book
How heartbreaking was this discovery; how cruel to be told they understood our men as we did not!


43.
... told us of his belief in ours.   BB p.162, A Vision For You   Go to page 162 in the Big Book
We are greatly indebted to the doctor in attendance there, for he, although it might prejudice his own work, has told us of his belief in ours.


44.
... told us that such things cannot happen ...   BB p.38, More About Alcoholism   Go to page 38 in the Big Book
We admit we have some of these symptoms, but we have not gone to the extremes you fellows did, nor are we likely to, for we understand ourselves so well after what you have told us that such things cannot happen again.


45.
... told us that the use of sweets ...   BB p.133, The Family Afterward   Go to page 133 in the Big Book
One of the many doctors who had the opportunity of reading this book in manuscript form told us that the use of sweets was often helpful, of course depending upon a doctor's advice.

46.
... told us there was nothing man couldn't ...   12&12 p.29, Step Two
Scientific progress told us there was nothing man couldn't do.

47.
... told what alcoholism was, so we'd educate ...   12&12 p.155, Tradition Six
People needed to be told what alcoholism was, so we'd educate the public, even rewrite school and medical textbooks.

48.
... told you about alcoholism?"   12&12 p.23, Step One
Why don't you try some more controlled drinking, bearing in mind meanwhile what we have told you about alcoholism?"


49.
... told you, made him a free man.   BB p.28, There Is A Solution   Go to page 28 in the Big Book
Here was the terrible dilemma in which our friend found himself when he had the extraordinary experience, which as we have already told you, made him a free man.


Passages from the Big Book Alcoholics Anonymous and the Twelve Steps and Twelve Traditions are reprinted with permission of A.A. World Services, Inc.  The A.A. Preamble, copyright © The A.A. Grapevine, Inc., is reprinted with permission.  Permission to reprint does not in any way imply affiliation with or endorsement by either Alcoholics Anonymous or The A.A. Grapevine, Inc.

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