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Alcoholics Anonymous (Big Book) and
Twelve Steps and Twelve Traditions (12 & 12)
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1.
... friend.
12&12 p.39,
Step Three
At
first that "
somebody"
is
likely to be his
closest A.A. friend.
2.
... friend.
BB p.12,
Bill's Story
3.
... friend.
BB p.55,
We Agnostics
We
finally saw that
faith in some
kind of
God was a
part of our
make-
up,
just as
much as the
feeling we have for a
friend.
4.
... friend.
BB p.67,
How It Works
5.
... friend.
BB p.74,
Into Action
If we cannot or would
rather not do this, we
search our
acquaintance
for a
close-
mouthed,
understanding friend.
6.
... friend.
BB p.94,
Working With Others
If your
talk has been
sane,
quiet and
full of
human understanding,
you have
perhaps made a
friend.
7.
... friend admitting
he has many, if not ...
BB p.92,
Working With Others
You
will soon have your
friend admitting he has
many, if not all, of the
traits
of the
alcoholic.
8.
... friend among
friends, to be a worker ...
12&12 p.53,
Step Four
We have not
once sought to
be
one in a
family, to be a
friend among friends, to be a
worker among workers, to be a
useful member of
society.
9.
... friend and
newcomer.
12&12 p.132,
Tradition Two
This, too, is a
puzzler for
every friend and
newcomer.
10.
... friend ask
him if he wants to ...
BB p.90,
Working With Others
Then
let his
family or a
friend ask him if he
wants to
quit for
good and if he would
go to
any extreme to do so.
11.
... friend asked
if he might come over.
BB p.8,
Bill's Story
The
cheery voice of an
old school friend asked if he might
come over.
12.
... friend, but
we find it much more ...
BB p.77,
Into Action
It is
harder to
go to an
enemy than to a
friend, but we
find it
much more beneficial to us.
13.
... friend's cornerstone
fixed in place.
BB p.56,
We Agnostics
14.
... friend drinking
their morning coffee.
12&12 p.144,
Tradition Three
15.
... friend's face
warmed my heart.
12&12 p.162,
Tradition Seven
16.
... friend felt
as though the gates of ...
BB p.27,
There Is A Solution
Our
friend felt as
though the
gates of
hell had
closed on him with a
clang.
17.
... friend found
himself when he had the ...
BB p.28,
There Is A Solution
Here was the
terrible dilemma in which our
friend found himself when he had the
extraordinary experience, which as we have
already told you,
made him a
free man.
18.
... friend's gorge
rose as he bitterly cried ...
BB p.56,
We Agnostics
Our
friend's
gorge rose as he
bitterly cried out: "If there is a
God, He
certainly hasn't
done anything for me!"
19.
... friend had
emphasized the absolute necessity of ...
BB p.14,
Bill's Story
20.
... friend had
said it all.
12&12 p.159,
Tradition Six
Concerning endorsements, our
friend
had
said it all.
21.
... friend had
to let me go.
BB p.4,
Bill's Story
But
drinking caught up with me
again and my
generous friend had to
let me
go.
22.
... friend had
with his doctor.
BB p.27,
There Is A Solution
Let us
tell you the
rest of the
conversation
our
friend had with his
doctor.
23.
... friend have
on the ball?
BB p.163,
A Vision For You
So he
inquired, what did our
friend have on the
ball?
24.
... friend's house,
in a town near home.
BB p.179,
Doctor Bob's Nightmare
I
remember nothing from
then on
until I
woke up at a
friend's
house, in a
town near home.
25.
... friend in
Montreal.
BB p.4,
Bill's Story
26.
... friend is
like a boy whistling in ...
BB p.152,
A Vision For You
We
know our
friend is
like a
boy whistling in the
dark to
keep up his
spirits.
27.
... friend is
still victimized by remorse and ...
12&12 p.39,
Step Three
28.
... friend's life
is still unmanageable even though ...
12&12 p.39,
Step Three
29.
... friend never
took the first drink, thereby ...
BB p.23,
There Is A Solution
30.
... friend of
A.A., died in the spring ...
BB p.572(574),
Appendix V, The Religious View on A.A.
(*)
Father Ed, an
early and
wonderful friend of
A.A.,
died in the
spring of
1960.
31.
... friend of
an alcoholic who shows no ...
BB p.573(575),
Appendix VI, How to Get in Touch With A.A.
32.
... friend of
hers who might help me.
BB p.179,
Doctor Bob's Nightmare
33.
... friend of
mine.
BB p.173,
Doctor Bob's Nightmare
34.
... friend of
mine who was a one-time ...
12&12 p.26,
Step Two
So did a
friend of
mine who
was a
one-
time vice-
president of the
American Atheist Society, but he
got through with
room to
spare."
35.
... friend of
the hotel lobby incident remained ...
BB p.159,
A Vision For You
All this
time our
friend of
the
hotel lobby incident remained in that
town.
36.
... friend, or
spiritual adviser.
BB p.63,
How It Works
37.
... friend over
to get me.
BB p.179,
Doctor Bob's Nightmare
38.
... friend proceeded
to tell him.
BB p.163,
A Vision For You
Our
friend proceeded to
tell him.
39.
... friend promised
when these things were done ...
BB p.13,
Bill's Story
My
friend promised when
these
things were
done I
would
enter upon a
new relationship with my
Creator; that I would have the
elements of a
way of
living which
answered all
my
problems.
40.
... friend related
his experience, the man agreed ...
BB p.155,
A Vision For You
When our
friend related his
experience, the
man agreed that
no amount of
will power he might
muster could
stop his
drinking for
long.
41.
... friend sat
before me, and he made ...
BB p.11,
Bill's Story
But my
friend sat before me, and he
made the
point-
blank declaration that
God had
done for him what he could not do for
himself.
42.
... friend says.
12&12 p.100,
Step Eleven
It
will help if we can
drop all
resistance to what
our
friend says.
43.
... friend; she's
a gossip -- personal relationship; self ...
BB p.65,
How It Works
44.
... friend's simple
talk in our kitchen multiplies ...
BB p.16,
Bill's Story
45.
... friend suggested
what then seemed a novel ...
BB p.12,
Bill's Story
My
friend suggested what
then
seemed a
novel idea.
46.
... Friend take
them away, root and branch.
BB p.13,
Bill's Story
47.
... friend, the
doctor, to ask if I ...
BB p.14,
Bill's Story
For a
moment I was
alarmed, and
called my
friend, the
doctor, to
ask if I were
still sane.
48.
... friend, the
vice president, had in mind ...
BB p.149,
To Employers
What our
friend, the
vice president, had in
mind was
the
habitual or
whoopee
drinker.
49.
... friend there
remained in me the vestiges ...
BB p.12,
Bill's Story
50.
... friend, "this
chap is either through with ...
BB p.138,
To Employers
"
Oh no,"
said my
friend, "this
chap is
either through with
liquor, or he
is
minus a
job.
51.
... friend to
his home.
BB p.155,
A Vision For You
Being intrigued,
however, he
invited our
friend to his
home.
52.
... friend understand.
BB p.138,
To Employers
53.
... friend wants
to talk further about himself, ...
BB p.95,
Working With Others
54.
... friend was
a minister's son.
BB p.56,
We Agnostics
Our
friend was a
minister's
son.
55.
... friend was
much more than inwardly reorganized.
BB p.11,
Bill's Story
I
saw that my
friend was
much more than
inwardly reorganized.
56.
... friend was
somewhat relieved, for he reflected ...
BB p.27,
There Is A Solution
Upon hearing this, our
friend was
somewhat relieved, for he
reflected that,
after all,
he was a
good church member.
57.
... friend was
wrong -- dead wrong.
BB p.135,
The Family Afterward
Of
course our
friend was
wrong --
dead wrong.
58.
... friend we
shall call Jim.
BB p.35,
More About Alcoholism
Our
first example is a
friend we
shall call Jim.
59.
... friend who
had been in contact with ...
BB xvi,
Foreword to Second Edition
60.
... friend who
looks at A.A. for the ...
12&12 p.129,
Tradition One
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