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1.
Whether agnostic, atheist, or former believer, we ...   12&12 p.33, Step Two
Whether agnostic, atheist, or former believer, we can stand together on this Step.

2.
... whether at a meeting or to a ...   12&12 p.166, Tradition Eight
When an A.A. talks for money, whether at a meeting or to a single newcomer, it can have a very bad effect on him, too.

3.
... whether by "borrowing" or on a heavily ...   12&12 p.86, Step Nine
Suppose, for instance, that we have drunk up a good chunk of our firm's money, whether by "borrowing" or on a heavily padded expense account.

4.
... whether by groups, clubs, hospitals, or other ...   12&12 p.190, Tradition Seven (Long)
We think that each group should soon achieve this ideal; that any public solicitation of funds using the name of Alcoholics Anonymous is highly dangerous, whether by groups, clubs, hospitals, or other outside agencies; that acceptance of large gifts from any source, or of contributions carrying any obligation whatever, is unwise.


5.
... whether by groups, clubs, hospitals, or other ...   BB p.564(566), Appendix I, The A.A. Tradition   Display entire Appendix I
We think that each group should soon achieve this ideal; that any public solicitation of funds using the name of Alcoholics Anonymous is highly dangerous, whether by groups, clubs, hospitals, or other outside agencies; that acceptance of large gifts from any source, or of contributions carrying any obligation whatever, is unwise.

6.
... whether God can -- and will, under certain ...   12&12 p.63, Step Six
Of course, the often disputed question of whether God can -- and will, under certain conditions -- remove defects of character will be answered with a prompt affirmative by almost any A.A. member.


7.
... Whether he dieth by musket Or by ...   BB p.1, Bill's Story   Go to page 1 in the Big Book
A good soldier is ne'er forgot Whether he dieth by musket Or by pot."


8.
... whether he has entered this dangerous area, ...   BB p.34, More About Alcoholism   Go to page 34 in the Big Book
If anyone questions whether he has entered this dangerous area, let him try leaving liquor alone for one year.

9.
... whether he should join us?   12&12 p.141, Tradition Three
Why did we leave it to each newcomer to decide himself whether he was an alcoholic and whether he should join us?


10.
... whether he wanted to stop drinking or ...   BB p.158, A Vision For You   Go to page 158 in the Big Book
He proved to be a devil-may-care young fellow whose parents could not make out whether he wanted to stop drinking or not.


11.
... whether he wants to go on.   BB p.95, Working With Others   Go to page 95 in the Big Book
After doing that, he must decide for himself whether he wants to go on.

12.
... whether he was an alcoholic and whether ...   12&12 p.141, Tradition Three
Why did we leave it to each newcomer to decide himself whether he was an alcoholic and whether he should join us?


13.
... whether he will drink or not.   BB p.34, More About Alcoholism   Go to page 34 in the Big Book
Whether such a person can quit upon a nonspiritual basis depends upon the extent to which he has already lost the power to choose whether he will drink or not.

14.
... whether his brother has yet received anything ...   12&12 p.109, Step Twelve
And then he discovers that by the divine paradox of this kind of giving he has found his own reward, whether his brother has yet received anything or not.


15.
... whether I dared hide a full bottle ...   BB p.8, Bill's Story   Go to page 8 in the Big Book
I wondered whether I dared hide a full bottle of gin near the head of our bed.

16.
... whether I may be able to alter ...   12&12 p.52, Step Four
These are the sort of fundamental inquiries that can disclose the source of my discomfort and indicate whether I may be able to alter my own conduct and so adjust myself serenely to self-discipline.

17.
Whether in Alaska or on the Salerno ...   12&12 p.38, Step Three
Whether in Alaska or on the Salerno beachhead, their dependence upon a Higher Power worked.

18.
... whether in the sewing circle or at ...   12&12 p.44, Step Four
When an individual's desire for prestige becomes uncontrollable, whether in the sewing circle or at the international conference table, other people suffer and often revolt.

19.
... whether it was repaid or not?   12&12 p.51, Step Four
Did I recklessly borrow money, caring little whether it was repaid or not?

20.
... whether it was the hen or the ...   12&12 p.26, Step Two
Just resign from the debating society and quit bothering yourself with such deep questions as whether it was the hen or the egg that came first.

21.
... whether medical or religious.   12&12 p.166, Tradition Eight
Almost no recovery from alcoholism has ever been brought about by the world's best professionals, whether medical or religious.


22.
... whether, on balance, the religions of mankind ...   BB p.11, Bill's Story   Go to page 11 in the Big Book
I honestly doubted whether, on balance, the religions of mankind had done any good.

23.
Whether our audience is one or many, ...   12&12 p.110, Step Twelve
Whether our audience is one or many, it is still Twelfth Step work.

24.
... whether our instinctual needs were met or ...   12&12 p.72, Step Seven
Seldom did we look at character-building as something desirable in itself, something we would like to strive for whether our instinctual needs were met or not.

25.
... whether our resentments were justified or not.   12&12 p.90, Step Ten
It mattered little whether our resentments were justified or not.


26.
... whether she is still drinking or is ...   BB p.104, To Wives (Note)   Go to page 104 in the Big Book
But many of the suggestions given here may be adapted to help the person who lives with a woman alcoholic -- whether she is still drinking or is recovering in A.A.


27.
Whether such a person can quit upon ...   BB p.34, More About Alcoholism   Go to page 34 in the Big Book
Whether such a person can quit upon a nonspiritual basis depends upon the extent to which he has already lost the power to choose whether he will drink or not.

28.
... whether the destruction fell on the dining-room ...   12&12 p.33, Step Two
Yet no alcoholic, soberly analyzing his destructive behavior, whether the destruction fell on the dining-room furniture or his own moral fiber, can claim "soundness of mind" for himself.


29.
Whether the family goes on a spiritual ...   BB p.135, The Family Afterward   Go to page 135 in the Big Book
Whether the family goes on a spiritual basis or not, the alcoholic member has to if he would recover.


30.
... Whether the family has spiritual convictions or ...   BB p.130, The Family Afterward   Go to page 130 in the Big Book
One more suggestion: Whether the family has spiritual convictions or not, they may do well to examine the principles by which the alcoholic member is trying to live.


31.
... whether the reason be humanitarian or business ...   BB p.140, To Employers   Go to page 140 in the Big Book
If your decision is yes, whether the reason be humanitarian or business or both, then the following suggestions may be helpful.


32.
... whether these complications are serious.   BB p.114, To Wives   Go to page 114 in the Big Book
A good doctor or psychiatrist can tell you whether these complications are serious.


33.
... whether they are one of us?   BB p.34, More About Alcoholism   Go to page 34 in the Big Book
How then shall we help our readers determine, to their own satisfaction, whether they are one of us?


34.
... whether to let him go.   BB p.147, To Employers   Go to page 147 in the Big Book
In case he does stumble, even once, you will have to decide whether to let him go.


35.
Whether we agree with a particular approach ...   BB p.50, We Agnostics   Go to page 50 in the Big Book
Whether we agree with a particular approach or conception seems to make little difference.

36.
... whether we are drinking or not.   12&12 p.88, Step Ten
But there is another kind of hangover which we all experience whether we are drinking or not.

37.
... whether we had been believers or unbelievers.   12&12 p.75, Step Seven
And this was true whether we had been believers or unbelievers.

38.
... whether we had sat on the shore ...   12&12 p.123, Step Twelve
It mattered little whether we had sat on the shore of life drinking ourselves into forgetfulness or had plunged in recklessly and willfully beyond our depth and ability.


39.
... whether we should see newsreels of lunar ...   BB p.52, We Agnostics   Go to page 52 in the Big Book
We were having trouble with personal relationships, we couldn't control our emotional natures, we were a prey to misery and depression, we couldn't make a living, we had a feeling of uselessness, we were full of fear, we were unhappy, we couldn't seem to be of real help to other people -- was not a basic solution of these bedevilments more important than whether we should see newsreels of lunar flight?


40.
... whether we think so or not.   BB p.78, Into Action   Go to page 78 in the Big Book
Telling them what we are trying to do, we make no bones about our drinking; they usually know it anyway, whether we think so or not.


41.
Whether you are a hard drinker, a ...   BB p.139, To Employers   Go to page 139 in the Big Book
Whether you are a hard drinker, a moderate drinker or a teetotaler, you may have some pretty strong opinions, perhaps prejudices.


42.
Whether you mention this book is a ...   BB p.142, To Employers   Go to page 142 in the Big Book
Whether you mention this book is a matter for your discretion.


43.
... whether you would have made much progress ...   BB p.94, Working With Others   Go to page 94 in the Big Book
Tell him you once felt as he does, but you doubt whether you would have made much progress had you not taken action.


44.
Whether your employee likes it or not, ...   BB p.144, To Employers   Go to page 144 in the Big Book
Whether your employee likes it or not, he will learn the grim truth about alcoholism.


Passages from the Big Book Alcoholics Anonymous and the Twelve Steps and Twelve Traditions are reprinted with permission of A.A. World Services, Inc.  The A.A. Preamble, copyright © The A.A. Grapevine, Inc., is reprinted with permission.  Permission to reprint does not in any way imply affiliation with or endorsement by either Alcoholics Anonymous or The A.A. Grapevine, Inc.

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