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From the books  ...  Alcoholics Anonymous (Big Book) and Twelve Steps and Twelve Traditions (12 & 12)


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1.
... mother.   BB p.106, To Wives   Go to page 106 in the Big Book
Perhaps at this point we got a divorce and took the children home to father and mother.


2.
... mother.   BB p.134, The Family Afterward   Go to page 134 in the Big Book
Without saying so, they may cordially hate him for what he has done to them and to their mother.


3.
... mother and children demand that he stay ...   BB p.131, The Family Afterward   Go to page 131 in the Big Book
Instead of developing new channels of activity for themselves, mother and children demand that he stay home and make up the deficiency.


4.
... mother and children don't think so.   BB p.126, The Family Afterward   Go to page 126 in the Big Book
Sometimes mother and children don't think so.


5.
... mother and children will see they ask ...   BB p.127, The Family Afterward   Go to page 127 in the Big Book
Little by little, mother and children will see they ask too much, and father will see he gives too little.


6.
... mother and father who see their son ...   BB p.104, To Wives   Go to page 104 in the Big Book
But for every man who drinks others are involved -- the wife who trembles in fear of the next debauch; the mother and father who see their son wasting away.


7.
... mother became head of the house.   BB p.130, The Family Afterward   Go to page 130 in the Big Book
Liquor incapacitated father for so many years that mother became head of the house.


8.
... mother has accepted dad's new way of ...   BB p.134, The Family Afterward   Go to page 134 in the Big Book
This may hang on for months, long after their mother has accepted dad's new way of living and thinking.


9.
... mother I was placed in a nationally-known ...   BB p.7, Bill's Story   Go to page 7 in the Big Book
My brother-in-law is a physician, and through his kindness and that of my mother I was placed in a nationally-known hospital for the mental and physical rehabilitation of alcoholics.


10.
... mother-in-law died, my wife and father-in-law became ...   BB p.5, Bill's Story   Go to page 5 in the Big Book
The house was taken over by the mortgage holder, my mother-in-law died, my wife and father-in-law became ill.


11.
Mother made all the plans and gave ...   BB p.131, The Family Afterward   Go to page 131 in the Big Book
Mother made all the plans and gave the directions.


12.
Mother may complain of inattention.   BB p.126, The Family Afterward   Go to page 126 in the Big Book
Mother may complain of inattention.

13.
... mother of an erring boy.   12&12 p.118, Step Twelve
Very gradually, and usually without any realization of the fact, the wife is forced to become the mother of an erring boy.


14.
... mother, through no fault of her own, ...   BB p.131, The Family Afterward   Go to page 131 in the Big Book
Thus mother, through no fault of her own, became accustomed to wearing the family trousers.


15.
... mother, who has been religious all her ...   BB p.128, The Family Afterward   Go to page 128 in the Big Book
He may tell mother, who has been religious all her life, that she doesn't know what it's all about, and that she had better get his brand of spirituality while there is yet time.


Passages from the Big Book Alcoholics Anonymous and the Twelve Steps and Twelve Traditions are reprinted with permission of A.A. World Services, Inc.  The A.A. Preamble, copyright © The A.A. Grapevine, Inc., is reprinted with permission.  Permission to reprint does not in any way imply affiliation with or endorsement by either Alcoholics Anonymous or The A.A. Grapevine, Inc.

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