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From the books  ...  Alcoholics Anonymous (Big Book) and Twelve Steps and Twelve Traditions (12 & 12)


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... husbands and fathers than ever before.   BB p.108, To Wives   Go to page 108 in the Big Book
Today most of our men are better husbands and fathers than ever before.


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... husbands and friends of A.A. members.   BB p.573(575), Appendix VI, How to Get in Touch With A.A.   Display entire Appendix VI
This is a world clearing house for the Al-Anon Family Groups, composed largely of the wives, husbands and friends of A.A. members.


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Husbands and wives have sometimes been obliged ...   BB p.125, The Family Afterward   Go to page 125 in the Big Book
Husbands and wives have sometimes been obliged to separate for a time until new perspective, new victory over hurt pride could be rewon.


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... husbands began to apply spiritual principles in ...   BB p.116, To Wives   Go to page 116 in the Big Book
As our husbands began to apply spiritual principles in their lives, we began to see the desirability of doing so too.

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... husbands, even the world itself -- into protective ...   12&12 p.115, Step Twelve
We had failed to see that though adult in years we were still behaving childishly, trying to turn everybody -- friends, wives, husbands, even the world itself -- into protective parents.


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... husbands hold up their heads and be ...   BB p.105, To Wives   Go to page 105 in the Big Book
Our loyalty and the desire that our husbands hold up their heads and be like other men have begotten all sorts of predicaments.


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... husbands of alcoholism.   BB p.118, To Wives   Go to page 118 in the Big Book
Another feeling we are very likely to entertain is one of resentment that love and loyalty could not cure our husbands of alcoholism.


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... husbands' reputations.   BB p.105, To Wives   Go to page 105 in the Big Book
We have told innumerable lies to protect our pride and our husbands' reputations.


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... husbands seemed to like it.   BB p.106, To Wives   Go to page 106 in the Big Book
The unexpected result was that our husbands seemed to like it.


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... husbands sneaked so many drinks that they ...   BB p.105, To Wives   Go to page 105 in the Big Book
When we were invited out, our husbands sneaked so many drinks that they spoiled the occasion.


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... husbands stopped drinking.   BB p.116, To Wives   Go to page 116 in the Big Book
We thought, on the whole, we were pretty good women, capable of being nicer if our husbands stopped drinking.


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... husbands thought we were so inhospitable.   BB p.106, To Wives   Go to page 106 in the Big Book
The bill collectors, the sheriffs, the angry taxi drivers, the policemen, the bums, the pals, and even the ladies they sometimes brought home -- our husbands thought we were so inhospitable.


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... husbands to be.   BB p.118, To Wives   Go to page 118 in the Big Book
We women carry with us a picture of the ideal man, the sort of chap we would like our husbands to be.


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... husbands were just as far gone.   BB p.110, To Wives   Go to page 110 in the Big Book
Many of our husbands were just as far gone.


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... husbands what had happened to them, to ...   BB p.160, A Vision For You   Go to page 160 in the Big Book
Many a distracted wife has visited this house to find loving and understanding companionship among women who knew her problem, to hear from the lips of their husbands what had happened to them, to be advised how her own wayward mate might be hospitalized and approached when next he stumbled.


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... husbands, wives, relatives, friends and others close ...   BB p.121, To Wives (Note)   Go to page 121 in the Big Book
Though it is entirely separate from Alcoholics Anonymous, it uses the general principles of the A.A. program as a guide for husbands, wives, relatives, friends and others close to alcoholics.


Passages from the Big Book Alcoholics Anonymous and the Twelve Steps and Twelve Traditions are reprinted with permission of A.A. World Services, Inc.  The A.A. Preamble, copyright © The A.A. Grapevine, Inc., is reprinted with permission.  Permission to reprint does not in any way imply affiliation with or endorsement by either Alcoholics Anonymous or The A.A. Grapevine, Inc.

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