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From the books  ...  Alcoholics Anonymous (Big Book) and Twelve Steps and Twelve Traditions (12 & 12)


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1.
... argument.   12&12 p.91, Step Ten
We must avoid quick-tempered criticism and furious, power-driven argument.

2.
... argument.   12&12 p.94, Step Ten
We "constructively criticized" someone who needed it, when our real motive was to win a useless argument.


3.
... argument.   BB p.19, There Is A Solution   Go to page 19 in the Big Book
Nothing would please us so much as to write a book which would contain no basis for contention or argument.


4.
... argument.   BB p.67, How It Works   Go to page 67 in the Big Book
We avoid retaliation or argument.

5.
... argument among A.A. members.   12&12 p.176, Tradition Ten
It could almost be said that we were born with it, for, as one oldtimer recently declared, "Practically never have I heard a heated religious, political, or reform argument among A.A. members.


6.
Argument and fault-finding are to be avoided ...   BB p.98, Working With Others   Go to page 98 in the Big Book
Argument and fault-finding are to be avoided like the plague.


7.
... argument, but that now he has become ...   BB p.129, The Family Afterward   Go to page 129 in the Big Book
Dad may feel that for years his drinking has placed him on the wrong side of every argument, but that now he has become a superior person with God on his side.


8.
... argument he has with them while drinking.   BB p.115, To Wives   Go to page 115 in the Big Book
Unless they actually need protection from their father, it is best not to take sides in any argument he has with them while drinking.


9.
... argument, self-pity, self-justification or resentful criticism.   BB p.127, The Family Afterward   Go to page 127 in the Big Book
These family talks will be constructive if they can be carried on without heated argument, self-pity, self-justification or resentful criticism.


10.
... argument they allowed me to return and ...   BB p.173, Doctor Bob's Nightmare   Go to page 173 in the Big Book
After much argument they allowed me to return and take my exams, all of which I passed creditably.


Passages from the Big Book Alcoholics Anonymous and the Twelve Steps and Twelve Traditions are reprinted with permission of A.A. World Services, Inc.  The A.A. Preamble, copyright © The A.A. Grapevine, Inc., is reprinted with permission.  Permission to reprint does not in any way imply affiliation with or endorsement by either Alcoholics Anonymous or The A.A. Grapevine, Inc.

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